What are different acceptable strategies of answering,
if the full truth about the ladyboy next to you (and your short, or long, relationship with her) is not appropriate(or conventient) to discuss, on the spot.
One easy way out, in the short-term, without outright lying:
"When I ask her, she tell me she have pussy."
(So that you are not lying, ask her if she has "backdoor" pussy. If she says yes, one would not need lawyers, such as Johnny Cochran (of O.J.Simpson related fame), to easily argue "If the person has pussy, then we know the rest". (If it quacks like a duck, ...)
(Here one needs to work on the rhyming, within the "sound-byte".)
(The above would be the sort of reply, I might give to friends and family, who know nothing about Thai ladyboys, if I was spotted with a ladyboy in a shopping center, in Thailand or Europe.)
(Racism and "men who have sex with "ladies who have a manly voice", are two topics, where I prefer not to use time, spreading information in all kinds of directions.
On these two topics, many people are not willing to reflect over. Their minds are pretty much made up, already.
(Racism and "men who have sex with men(ladyboy/ladyman)",
are controversial subjects, for many.
For those who do not have a problem with a "white" lie, once in a while:
"She/he is only a friend."
or
"This is the brother or sister of my friend."
(But until one corrects the "white" lie, so that the recipient of it, has been updated on pertinent information, that is not a lie, -
well, until then one is a lier. Albeit, a "white" lier.)
(In the eyes of others, one is a confirmed lier, if the correct facts later come on the table through another source.)
A good friend (but not a close friend) in Thailand, one day started talking about ladyboys, and how he once had a ladyboy give him a blow-job, and that it was OK, but not special for him.
A few days later, my friend asked me, what does one do "If one loves a ladyboy".
I answered: I don't know.
(This is not a lie, because the question is incomplete. I would have to know what ladyboy and ladyboy-lover, that my friend might be referring to,
before commenting on such a situation.) (I am sure my friend was referring to me and that someone had seen me, out and about with a particular ladyboy. However, since my friend did not ask a direct question, then I can not give him a direct answer.)
("Labelling" is a seperate thread, although it relates in some ways, to the above.)
if the full truth about the ladyboy next to you (and your short, or long, relationship with her) is not appropriate(or conventient) to discuss, on the spot.
One easy way out, in the short-term, without outright lying:
"When I ask her, she tell me she have pussy."
(So that you are not lying, ask her if she has "backdoor" pussy. If she says yes, one would not need lawyers, such as Johnny Cochran (of O.J.Simpson related fame), to easily argue "If the person has pussy, then we know the rest". (If it quacks like a duck, ...)
(Here one needs to work on the rhyming, within the "sound-byte".)
(The above would be the sort of reply, I might give to friends and family, who know nothing about Thai ladyboys, if I was spotted with a ladyboy in a shopping center, in Thailand or Europe.)
(Racism and "men who have sex with "ladies who have a manly voice", are two topics, where I prefer not to use time, spreading information in all kinds of directions.
On these two topics, many people are not willing to reflect over. Their minds are pretty much made up, already.
(Racism and "men who have sex with men(ladyboy/ladyman)",
are controversial subjects, for many.
For those who do not have a problem with a "white" lie, once in a while:
"She/he is only a friend."
or
"This is the brother or sister of my friend."
(But until one corrects the "white" lie, so that the recipient of it, has been updated on pertinent information, that is not a lie, -
well, until then one is a lier. Albeit, a "white" lier.)
(In the eyes of others, one is a confirmed lier, if the correct facts later come on the table through another source.)
A good friend (but not a close friend) in Thailand, one day started talking about ladyboys, and how he once had a ladyboy give him a blow-job, and that it was OK, but not special for him.
A few days later, my friend asked me, what does one do "If one loves a ladyboy".
I answered: I don't know.
(This is not a lie, because the question is incomplete. I would have to know what ladyboy and ladyboy-lover, that my friend might be referring to,
before commenting on such a situation.) (I am sure my friend was referring to me and that someone had seen me, out and about with a particular ladyboy. However, since my friend did not ask a direct question, then I can not give him a direct answer.)
("Labelling" is a seperate thread, although it relates in some ways, to the above.)
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