The Chat Room Fraternity...

[dreamingcars24]

I'm posting this to voice my objection with the way i have been treated in the chat room. Suay has aloud while she has been the moderator of the room, other members such as lbprofessor to verbal abuse and physically threaten me and when i mentioned my dissatisfaction she tells me and treats me like its my fault.

I have been treated so badly that i havent been participating when just logging in to the chat in order not to provoke the disgustingly rude behavior. You may ask why do i log in then? Well i do have some members here that i enjoy speaking with and i may login so as to let them know iam here.

The people mentioned above say iam creepy for logging in and not chatting with them. I DIDNT KNOW THAT WHEN YOU ENTER THE CHAT ROOM THAT YOU BECOME A DOG THAT HAS TO JUMP THROUGH HOOPS FOR THE MODERATOR !

Anyway as a result of being threatened repeatedly to be kicked out i decided to leave and when sometime passed i tried to login to find someone in particular i was booted and have since been banned.

Im glad i live in america where freedom rings and this chat has really turned me off the idea that i could enjoy myself here.

I have read other members dissatisfaction with the way they have been treated as well in chat and i say to you that i feel your frustration.
I think thats why there is not more members involved in there. Suay herself know this is true because she contacted me after we had our own dissagreement and she asked me to come back to talk with her .We did and she was very respectful and kind but then fast forward to my prblem with fellow member lbprofesssor and right in front of him in chat she turned and acted as if i was the problem. Go figure?

[sev7en]

I don´t go there anymore cuz of her way of moderating ie kick when disagree.
Not gonna matter, bud, stogies likes her and he´s never around to know whats going on.

[katoeylover]

DC - You were banned from the chat broom for not chatting.

A chat room is designed for us to go there and chat with like minded people about different things, not all LB related.

To have someone sat there, not saying anything for hours on end is somewhat creepy. When challenged, you said it was your right to read what we were saying.

Yes this is true in a public forum, but not in a chat room.

Sev7en - I think you are being a little sensitive. Everyone gets kicked now and again, even me!!

Naang Faa is very opinionated, but so are you too! so stop sulking and come on in, and i promise I wont kick you (this week anyway!!)

[Guest]

Are you dreaming Cars? I don't know what your history was before I became a regular in the the chat room DC, but over the last 3-4 weeks I have witnessed you coming into the chat room with nothing to add while sitting off to the side lurking. I even tried to engage conversation with you to no avail. You couldn't even bother to say hi when you came in? It became sort of a joke really and I would always greet you with the words to Gary Neumans in cars when you came in for your dailey voyeur session in the CR.

Voyerism is fine in the forum, but to do it in the CR is creepy! I was the one who mentioned it and made that comment not Naang Fah. Her comment was that you were like someone peering through the drapes. After all of us active participants in the CR made these comments you came out of your little closet and claimed it was an open forum, and you didn't have to chat. We all tried to explain to you the 10 minute rule, which I have dubbed the LBP rule as a playful jab at lbprofessor who had been accused of long stays without a post. However he has adapted and conformed to the rule instead of storming out like you did and telling us you would never come back.

Directly after you ran out I made the comment "He will be back and when he does, lets just take a break and not say anything and see if he gets it then." Well you made a phrophet out of me when you came back the next day!
Then again the day after, and absorbed your ban. Its not fair to blame Naang Fah for enforcing a rule,or policing lurking. It is creepy! We get on her when anybody else violates the LBP rule (10 minute) and she responds with a boot. Often that person comes back in knowing they were linked to lurking without a big deal. Sometimes people just left their computer and come back well after 10 minutes and see the log in menu with the message you have been kicked. Pretty easy to figure out why.

To tie your ban in with loss of freedom and how America rings of it is absurd! America gets a bad rap because of people like you who talk like that. Everyone here loves an enjoys freedom just as much as you. We want the freedom to be able to go in and have a chat without someone lurking over us without ever making a contribution or dropping a hello or goodbye. Someone lurking discourages chat from other genuine participants.

Im sure you could get back in if you were a little understanding and realised why they have these rules. Perhaps a PM to one of the mods could earn you a another chance. If that doesnt work, you can always register under another name and come back. However if you do the same thing Naang Faa (or any moderator)will see right through it, and you'll be gone again.
In the meantime just sit in your car and blast the hip hop and dream away about your glorious lurkathons in the chat room.

[seanbeag7]

NO COMMENT!

[Tomcat]

In the old Bankok chat around 75% were lurkers although many were hookers there were also quite a few guys just hovering in the ether. Personally i dont see lurking as a problem.

Most of the chatting was private" side" chats for my part. boy , do i miss that ol BBKchat.

[sev7en]

(katoeylover @ Dec. 10 2008,15:03) so stop sulking and come on in, and i promise I wont kick you (this week anyway!!)

I can´t stop sulking, KL. I don´t know what to do. Losing sleep over this now too.
Kicked from a chatroom on a board about worshipping young transsexual prostitutes.
I´ve my fair share of disapointments and hardtimes in my life, but this.....

[dreamingcars24]

First off I'am not too shook up over it lol. Thats the funny thing about forums , you really cant get an accurate account of emotion "or lack there of" from text.

As for being in the chat room and saying nothing, you only witnessed me in there a few times and that was when lbprofessor was in there so you didnt witness what he was doing on prior visits.

He was cursing me out continuously and harrassing me and even threatened me physically so when you viewed me logging in and saying nothing you seemed to disregard that i was cautious about speaking as to not invite him into the same rant. As soon as i started speaking he would start it up again.NOBODY SAW THAT THOUGH HUH?

As far as lurking? Many people login and then open up other search windows and surf so they may not be monitoring chat every minute. There are many times i was there saying hi when members were there but not one said anything. I didnt get pissed or anything i just assumed they were surfing in another window.

As far as getting booted after 10 minute rule ? I could care less if i have to login because of inactivity lol. thats not an issue with me. Like other members here said, it's about getting booted if you don't bow like a servant to the moderator on topics of disagreement. You can just see power trip they get on when they want to throw their weight around.

As far as Boarhog? You said it all in your first sentence here. You don't know the history of me here before you witnessed what you did. I would say to myself if i didn't know the whole story maybe there's more to this and i should keep an open mind before forming an opinion. It's true you viewed me in there but not what occurred prior nor did katoy or others. As far as not saying anything or even hi, I did say hi every time just not to everyone. Suay knows i said hi to her and others but sometimes i said it in private pms.

[Stogie]

Isn't there an option to select "Away" when you log into the Chat Room? So you can log in but people know that you won't be posting. That way you won't get booted out.

Log in, select "Away" (or whatever it is) and Bob's your aunties live in lover!

[seamus]

Cant see wot the fuss is all about, LBP & I had some strong words, borehog & I had a little ding dong, no hard feelings & would gladly have a beer with the both of them As for Naang Faa, I had to ask her to kick me out, it's all a bit of fun.

[seanbeag7]

Yeah, you got kicked off for been a cockney gob-shite

[seamus]

   You have to be born in the sound of Bow Bells to be a cockney SB7 & I was born in the sound of Shandon bells LOL

[katoeylover]

No, for being a plastic paddy!!

[seamus]

Well Gizmo was also born in the sound of the Shandon bells, so I'm in great company

[gizmo]

(katoeylover @ Dec. 10 2008,16:52)

No, for being a plastic paddy!!        

Hey, watch it!