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[perth_couple]

(doitrong @ Jan. 12 2009,12:56)

(seamus @ Jan. 12 2009,00:37) Well guys I took Leo from cascades with me to guess bar, where she made a few new friends, then took Mary from Bali in there & the guess girls reported back to Leo every last little detail . There are lots of lose tounges out there guys female as well as male  !

I dont understand you guys who pick up a ladyboy from a certain bar and then decide to parade her at another bar?

wat are you tyying to proove ?

wat have you got to gain?

wat happens if you meet a better girl at that bar than the one you have taken there in the first place.....

to me , its just a lose lose situation on all fronts....

but hey thats Thailand and as they say...

up to you.....

We parade take-out LB's at other bars as a kind of trophy.

Its a way of demostrating to others that we may be wealthy and popular...

Seriously though, when we do it its cause we like to hang with lb's 'long time' and therefore offer to take our dates wherever we go - or they can stay at home. Up to them....

If we meet someone else we like at a bar, we come back again some other time and hook up... like gentle-persons...

We wouldnt take gay boys from one bar in boys town to the next though, that does seem  

[bigmick22]

(doitrong @ Jan. 13 2009,12:00) yea ok buddy...

the guy took a ladyboy From Cascade and paraded her at Guess bar......

if you take a girl for a week ..nice work .....

i just cannot see th epoint in taking a Nana girl to Guess Bar and rubbing it in the Guess girls faces ...

but hey thats just my point of view....

up to you duckling.........

I've seen loads of guys bring girls from Cascade to Guess bar. Quite a few of the Cascade girls are at Guess fairly frequently and are very friendly with most of the guess girls. They have some drinks together and gossip, chat and laugh - same as the guys do.

There were a number of non-Guess girls at the boxing day bash and I don't think anyone's nose was out of joint.

I've been with Seamus and his Cascade girl at Guess and he certainly wasn't parading her and he didn't abandon her to go get pissed with the lads either.

I have been with a number of girls who have asked me to take them to other LB bars before - either out of interest as they haven't been there before or else to chat with mates.

[Master Bator]

(bumblebee @ Jan. 13 2009,18:20) I recently posted some pics of the girls in the Char nee bar, innocent pics, in the actual bar.  

Then some plonker goes and emails one of the pics to one of the girls.  The girl in question did not recognise his email, as when I went back to the bar she asked me how I got her email.

Awkward situation, she was cool, just curious, I just said when I find beautiful girls in a bar I send the pics to my friends, and they send to their friends, so more guys will come to the bar.

Sending the pics to the girls is a stupid thing.

But sending them around to like-minded friends is good PR.

I'm sure the Char nee girls can count on more customers these coming weeks.
And considering the dreadfull high season they should be happy.


Perhaps they should hire you as their PR agent!

[seamus]

(bigmick22 @ Jan. 13 2009,11:26) I've been with Seamus and his Cascade girl at Guess and he certainly wasn't parading her and he didn't abandon her to go get pissed with the lads either.

You know wot it's Lke BigMick, paddys cant keep away from the piss & leave the girls standing there on their own, not talking with the other LB's as their not from the same bar

[doitrong]

(kahuna @ Jan. 13 2009,18:14)

(doitrong @ Jan. 13 2009,18:03) might have to try it myself sometime....

So...You're gonna pick up a girl on Walking Street and take her to Sunee Plaza?    

No....

butt next trip i am going to take a fem boy from Sunnee to Guess Bar in his nice white Y fronts.....

and hope that Eats , Joy, Gate or Vivian dont get to him before me....

now that would be Gay.........

[Guest]

(doitrong @ Jan. 12 2009,12:56)

(seamus @ Jan. 12 2009,00:37) Well guys I took Leo from cascades with me to guess bar, where she made a few new friends, then took Mary from Bali in there & the guess girls reported back to Leo every last little detail . There are lots of lose tounges out there guys female as well as male  !

I dont understand you guys who pick up a ladyboy from a certain bar and then decide to parade her at another bar?

wat are you trying to proove ?

wat have you got to gain?

wat happens if you meet a better girl at that bar than the one you have taken there in the first place.....

to me , its just a lose lose situation on all fronts....

but hey thats Thailand and as they say...

up to you.....

I did this almost everynight in Patong recently. I wasnt trying to prove anything, just happened to be with a couple of lb's for a few days each and they liked to go to lb bars where they could dance while I enjoyed watching the scene and drinking with other bar men. In fact a couple of them had lb's with them nightly.

I even took 2 lb's to mainstream bars, one just for shock value to the bar and the other just to see see how passable to a mate she would be. The ladyboys were never uncomfortable in these situations.

I like hanging out with ladyboys outside the bedroom as well, and don't see it as a parade.

I'm in BKK with my lb girlfriend, and if I make it to Guess bar this Friday night she will be with me. It will only happen if she is comfortable with it. I have no problem with it. My gain is that I can go places I like to go with her.

[Stogie]

(doitrong @ Jan. 14 2009,13:38) but next trip i am going to take a fem boy from Sunnee to Guess Bar in his nice white Y fronts.....

and hope that Eats , Joy, Gate or Vivian dont get to him before me....

now that would be Gay.........

Yes... it would be gay... but I'd pay to see it!

[69billy]

(doitrong @ Jan. 12 2009,06:56)

(seamus @ Jan. 12 2009,00:37) Well guys I took Leo from cascades with me to guess bar, where she made a few new friends, then took Mary from Bali in there & the guess girls reported back to Leo every last little detail . There are lots of lose tounges out there guys female as well as male  !

I dont understand you guys who pick up a ladyboy from a certain bar and then decide to parade her at another bar?

wat are you tyying to proove ?

wat have you got to gain?

wat happens if you meet a better girl at that bar than the one you have taken there in the first place.....

to me , its just a lose lose situation on all fronts....

but hey thats Thailand and as they say...

up to you.....

Lots of BMs do that so do I..Its not parading its just going for a drink...some LBs do like to go to LB bars or LB shows...
what have you got to gain?.
.Fun most of the time..LBs will see, you are not just a lurker and not shy to be seen with one..soo many of lurkers out there...

wat happens if you meet a better girl at that bar than the one you have taken there in the first place.....
Simple.....Take her too for a 3sum....

So many LBs in Pattaya know maybe all that I got a LB GF..Its not stoping them asking to come to my loom...Lose LB tongues is advantage..You'll be surprised how many LB will come out the woodwork once they know you are a LB shager..
I don't think it a lose lose situation at all ...to me its always been the win win situation....
BUT...
I know better then the most , lose tongue wanker falangs are just

[petesie]

Loose tongues sink trips.............

[Tomcat]

with due respect to Mint , she has a site and so would expect to be chatted about. You cant have your cake and eat it. If you want fame then expect all the crap that comes with it

[Guest]

I dont see the problem here, personally i have never taken a Guess bar girl but have from other LB bars and ended up in Cascades or Obsessions even Cassanova with them and they had a great time,,,probably leaving me to get pissed while they discussed makeup or cosmetic surgeons or some other crap.

The point is as soon as you walk in to a LB bar with someone they know you are off the market for that night but hey tomorrow is another day, and believe me the next time you go in that bar they know you are LB friendly so you have new friends

If the Lb tells me she is uncomfortable being there....simple we leave and go somewhere else

[manarak]

I'm sure I'm in the minority here, but I hate anonymous  
cowards. I think anything you post  here should about the girls or the bars, you should be willing to say to the girls or bar owners in person.  As my old mother used to say, "If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all."  

In my opinion, if you are not willing to take responsibility for what you are writting then you should not pick up the pen to begin with.

I don't agree.

If everybody followed that path, it would be very difficult to get useful info off the internet. You'd have to read the forums very intensively to extract info, interpret and extrapolate. This kinda defeats the purpose of the net.
Plus, one would have to sort out the true reports from the fake ones posted by LB-buddies wanting to get free fucks
(I have been running a Trans-Escorts site for over 7 years now, I do have lots of experience in those games).

Second, exercising the freedom of speech means that one can do so without being exposed to revenge.
The LBs play with different rules. There are few bars, so if they want to make your life difficult, they have no problem doing so and will not refrain from lying to the other LBs about how bad you've alledgedly been to them.

To avoid such reprisals, I think it is perfectly legitimate to post under a different name.

Speech and voicing opinions is a freedom, and one must be able to exercise it without fear.

[eclipse]

This post hits a nerve for me big time

I'd like to know what a BM gains from showing somebody else's post, or photos to the girl they "pay" to have sex with. It simply boggles my mind. What do they want to gain from it? Does the girl give it up for free afterward?

Secondly if you are considering yourself the "boyfriend" of a working girl, you should expect to see her photos or stories about her in this board or any other LB boards. Honestly you can not be that naive thinking that she is working in a LB bar for the lady drinks. And confronting the girls showing the posts is such a lame behavior. Some guys can handle a working girl relationship and some guys can not. There is no middle way about it. And if you can not handle it take her out of the bar.

-eclipse

[razrman]

I agree completely. Some people think that just because the ladyboy shows extra affection or he pours extra bucks at her he owns the "property".
Recently, I had a similar problem with my simple blog on ladyboys.
A ladyboy asked me to remove her photo because her parents, whom I'm guessing would be in their 50s, would see it and be angry with her! Somebody commented that it was probably her boyfriend. Nevertheless, she's the decent sort (doesn't tell much lies) so I gave her the benefit of the doubt and removed her pic.

Just picking up on the second point of not publishing comments about a ladyboy's bad service. I'm of the opinion that it should work both ways - both positive and negative comments ought to be published.
I feel fellow BMs ought to be aware of what happened and make a better informed decision as to whether to make use of that ladyboy's services - which isn't free, as well as takes up time and energy. In the event they don't believe the comments they've only got themselves to blame if things don't work out.

[f0xxee]

Thank you to both Eclipse and razrman...
I couldn 't agree more.. what on earth do they hope to gain from it? I do know there are certain universal truths that cross cultural boundaries... and one is:

NO one likes a snitch.

Anyone who thinks a girl is going to look admiringly into the eyes of one who tries to promote himself at the expense of others is not playing with the full deck.

The fact is Ladyboys deal with maybe 6 falangs a night. Maybe sleep with one a night if they are really lucky. They are students of human nature. Up close and personal. They know us. I don't say they understand us, but they know us. They know we gossip in the same way as thier bamboo telegraph works for them. They know we drink and talk and discuss them. This forum is no more than the historical collection of a thousand anecdotes.

So anyone so pathetically in need of a stroke that they try to curry favour by blabbing all our dirty little secrets, forget it.

It just makes the girls think you are spineless, and it doesn't enhance your appeal with me much either.