One-week Ladyboy Rentals?

[seamus]

(terry @ Dec. 16 2008,16:47) Just to add some legal history to this interesting thread: according to Roman Civil Law, the legal term used for both, a leasing/rental agreement or a labour/service contract, was "locatio conductio" (scil. "rerum" sive "operum")

"Wot have the Romans ever done for us"

[EyeMahk]

How much to give depends on how much money she could make in a given week?  Depends on the LB. Depends on the season. Might be 3,000-18,000 per week.

Vacation? everything equal, she would likely rather be with her friends but she will not tell you that or let you think that (so maybe best you don't think about this either). But the money from you negates this preference.

First of all, do you really want to commit this amount of time to one LB?  Have you been with her for more than 48 hours straight before?  If not, then committing to a week is insane. She'll likely be happy to agree to a couple of days then you can always extend, or take a break of a few days to have sex and fun with other people. There's lots of LBs that need your love (and money). Be fair and spread the wealth around!

"Only you" is a little extreme and intentionally misleading. Simply don't discuss it. Personally, I would not tell her that you are spending money on other girls (i.e. having sex for money). Just tell her that you are going off on your motorbike to work at a computer for a few hours or that you are visiting friends.  If she starts drilling you about details, you can just tell her that your work or farang friendships are really your business only (and boring), just as her personal life and her work and her friendships are her business. Once out of sight, you can fuck all the LBs or GGs you like, but take care not to throw it in her face (don't fuck girls in her bar).

She likely won't go following you then confronting you unless she feels she can get an advantage over you. But the time she is away from her is HER TIME, so don't go asking where she is going and what she is doing. Fair is fair.

I can tell you that all this is possible only if you NEVER talk about your wife, girlfriends, past girlfriends or other TGs you have had sex with.  And NEVER ask her about her Thai boyfriend, her other customers, or her work. Never. By you never discussing her sex life or occupation, you establish the boundaries of what she can ask you.  Most will appreciate this and go along with the program. And drama you can stop immediately by just telling her that if she wants to be with you, that you both agree not to discuss these topics.

If you are paying her any money, then you have the right to avoid any of these discussions.

[tomscam]

Farangbah

Sounds to me like you can tell a good lie (and hopefully get away with it!) so I'd continue with bullshitting her because while she's hot there's so many more coming off the production line who are younger, more beautiful etc.

If I was you I'd tell her I'm arriving a week later than I really am and spend that week in an area where she's not and fuck my brains out. That way you can have fun and not have to go behind her back.

Shallow is always best when you're renting ass.

[dommy6]

Hi farangbah, for what it is worth my advice is for part 1 is be kind and take option 2. I doubt she will appreciate you trying to justify you playing on the side. Even if she might happen to say she understands. Don't believe it. Say nothing.

As for part 2, it depends on you and her. Its not that she works for an agency and you can negotiate a quantity discount with her employer. She is the boss in that department. Considerations are where does she work? Is she bar fined regularly? Does she make a lot on drinks? So she will need to be compensated for that. On the other hand in your favour is if you know she is not a high earner you can play the guaranteed income as opposed to the lesser of what she would have earned.

Eyemak sums it up pretty good.

Just one more piece of advice. Phuket (Patong I assume) is a small place so you will need to look over your shoulder a lot if you know what I mean.

[TTChang]

(EyeMahk @ Dec. 17 2008,13:34) .  And NEVER ask her about her Thai boyfriend, her other customers, or her work. Never. By you never discussing her sex life or occupation, you establish the boundaries of what she can ask you.  Most will appreciate this and go along with the program.

  ... As usual, a great post from Eyemahk.   Trust me, he knows what he's talking about.   Shame he gets tempted to behave differently (he was struggling to choose between 3 girls from a bar last night   ....   one he's been with 5 times, one twice, and one not at all)     But at least he can forsee the outcome  

[EyeMahk]

(TTChang @ Dec. 17 2008,06:10) Shame he gets tempted to behave differently (he was struggling to choose between 3 girls from a bar last night   ....   one he's been with 5 times, one twice, and one not at all)     But at least he can forsee the outcome  

Ahh, the difference is there wasn't a ladyboy from Pook in my room on a weeklong barfine.

So my choices last night were one that I'd been with 5 times (she kept flicking her hair at me but I got an SMS at 1:00am so I think she still loves me) Or one I'd been with 2 times and one I had not been with. One set of new tits on a great chick, one new girl who spoke no English and is on hormones (she's been in Pattaya 2 days and now has a bus ticket home). Third choice was the cutest thing with a big cock who is a hell of an actress. Who to choose, who to choose? Bought a few drinks for rookie and big cock and had a look at 5-times girl's new tits (they are nice, thanks to the guy from New Zealand who bought them!). I ended up the night with a 4th girl from Lucifers Disco! (TIT - this is Thailand)

But TT, you'd be proud of me, I went back to Pook at 3:30pm today and decided to fuck the first of the three that I saw. 3rd time is the charm, she's getting even better!

[EyeMahk]

(dommy6 @ Dec. 17 2008,05:31) Just one more piece of advice. Phuket (Patong I assume) is a small place so you will need to look over your shoulder a lot if you know what I mean.

This is very, very true. Especially if you are known in the town. And if you stay with her in the same town as your own bar, then she will want to go back there to show off you and spread some baht to her friends.

These girls have memories like elephants. I saw a girl on walking street last night that called out one of the names that I use.    Turns out I screwed her 2 YEARS AGO, one time, in a short-time room on Soi 6. Total time spent with her was an hour or so, and if a girl that looks as good as she does has been working 2-3 years on Soi 6, I am one of more than 1000 guys she has had sex with!  Tread carefully my friend!  

You could bring her to Bangkok (open ticket back to Phuket for her is preferred ) then you'll be able to spread baht and sperm all over the city and none of her friends will be calling her and telling her what you are doing.

And she'll be away from her Thai boyfriend too.  

[farangbah]

(dommy6 @ Dec. 17 2008,17:31) Eyemak sums it up pretty good.

Just one more piece of advice. Phuket (Patong I assume) is a small place so you will need to look over your shoulder a lot if you know what I mean.

First, Eyemahk, thank you so much for taking the time.  Sage advice.  Thanks also to Dommy6, Tomscam and TTChang.  

The plot thickens: She works at Tequila Bar, Phuket's LB ground zero.  And I was just there 3 months ago, and they will all remember me.  

Now, how do I get from that, to this...

(TTChang @ Dec. 17 2008,18:10) he was struggling to choose between 3 girls from a bar last night   ....   one he's been with 5 times, one twice, and one not at all

I failed upfront to establish my butterfly credentials.  Jim's C & Ds is a sanctuary, granted.  But there are a few of them in TB that I've been thinking about these 3 months and want to fuck the living snot out of.  I'm the one that's fucked, I guess.  Lesson learned: if you wanna roll like Eyemahk last night, you don't let yourself get into this situation or you're cooked.  I really don't want to write this bar off.  If you've been, you know what I mean.  

You're saying they're guaranteed to tell her, even if I go unseen and rendez vous on the sly?  Maybe I could wear a Santa beard as disguise.

It might be worth the risk anyway, if I wait till late in the week...

Either way, the ride begins on Sunday...

[Stogie]

I was going to suggest option one but she may have a pair of scissors in her bag!

The Thai way is the best way - just lie to her and if she wants you enough, she'll deal with her suspicion...

...but even that is gonna land you in too much trouble to be worth the bother.

Depending on the length of your holiday and where you plan to be you could do both... Butterfly for a week and then spend the last few days with the hottie.

BTW - Ladyboys become 'proprietorial' pretty much from the moment they set eyes on you. It doesn't have much to do with your history with her.

It has more to do with her perception of how easy you are to manipulate!

Good luck... I'm looking forward to the outcome of this adventure!

[Guest]

farangbah.....this is what you are going to look like to that LT LB if you don't get a stronger attitude right now. You have to be in charge of the situation at all times and if you leave any decisions up to them or she sees the slightest chink in your armor then you are finished and she will play you like a violin!! Good luck and take charge of your life and your holiday!!

[EyeMahk]

(Stogie @ Dec. 17 2008,08:59) It has more to do with her perception of how easy you are to manipulate!

100% correct.

farangbah, you have ZERO chance of fucking other girls in Tequila Bar without her knowing, no matter how you do it. So take this fact into consideration and proceed. Remember, it is your holiday, and no one has the right to tell you how to spend your time and money (that is the job of a farang wife/gf). But the choices you make have ramifications (i.e. you tell her "only you" then try to go to her bar behind her back and fuck someone else? This will turn out very bad for you and you will wish you hadn't done it.)

[farangbah]

 A tough pill (nut?) to swallow, but I shall.

(aperry @ Dec. 18 2008,09:26) farangbah.....this is what you are going to look like to that LT LB if you don't get a stronger attitude right now.   You have to be in charge of the situation at all times and if you leave any decisions up to them or she sees the slightest chink in your armor then you are finished and she will play you like a violin!!  Good luck and take charge of your life and your holiday!!

Thank you, Aperry.  I dig what you're saying.  I'm rather large and in charge in most situations/bars.  I've set the table from the beginning.  This one happened to be a happy accident -- she picked me up (literally. I apparently fell down.) and the next morning I woke up next to something the ladyboy gods hand-crafted for my enjoyment.  I couldn't fucking believe it.  (I still kinda don't believe it)  Then I had to get me some more...

So, I'm trying to play catch-up and win the round with a shitty hand.  Don't get me wrong, I enjoy the pretend relationship.  In doses.  It's just that I want my cake *and* I want to eat it too.  And I want other slices from the same restaurant.  Thus, this thread.  And the plea for hard-won advice...

[harley quinn]

(Stogie @ Dec. 17 2008,13:59) BTW - Ladyboys become 'proprietorial' pretty much from the moment they set eyes on you.

Two seconds of eye contact usually does the trick!

But seriously IMHO getting too hung up over this is just going to ruin your holiday. Accept the fact that your hottie is probably shagging some farang as we write with a little time off to blow a Japanese visitor. Just have fun, treat her well and come away with happy memories.

[Guest]

[B]
Hey somebody please tell this poor horny soul if I would be able to have some time with the lbs mentioned in the posts during day time say around 11 am to 3pm.
I intend to be in BKK and Pattaya next week.

[EyeMahk]

(sontosh @ Dec. 18 2008,22:24) Hey somebody please tell this poor horny soul if I would be able to have some time with the lbs mentioned in the posts during day time say around 11 am to 3pm.
I intend to be in BKK and Pattaya next week.

Meet them in person in the bars at night, and tell them what you want. Exchange numbers, and tell them what you will give them in exchange for interrupting their afternoon sleep. Give them a couple of red notes so they remember you.

And in Phuket, there is always Tootsie Massage for afternoon action.