Young or Matured Ladyboys

[Tomcat]

(izZyLiciOuS @ Nov. 09 2008,17:59) that's all for now...

Whens the next episode...."The Birthday Suit" ....


Look forward to it Izzy and thanks for the horny pics..
Its nice to put a name to a face. The perfect age for me is 21... purrrrfect

[seamus]

Stunning, thanx for sharing

[DexterH]

Have to agree with Knockout, Gorgeous Hally on LiveJasmin is awesome, but I think she represents one of the two options mentioned already -the girls who stay girls and look after themselves, and the ones who reach maybe 40 and then let go, and become overweight and androgynous, maybe acting as counsellors or hairdressers for the younger girls...I have noticed incidentally that a lot of the daytime ts in the Red Light District of Amsterdam are well over 30-35, mostly Latinas.

[jimslim]

Very nice Izzy

[Guest]

Thanks for showing up Izzy.

You are wonderful

I change my mind in a glimpse of a moment (the story of my life) (one part of it anyway). You are just right for me.

Now let me turn this upside down.
What is your opinion of age?
A young beauty like yourself. What is your true opinion on man's age.

I wonder if someone here will pass your age-limit.

I guess you won't find anyone presenting themselves with pics here. But let's say we're all looking pretty young and handsome, what would YOU say about age-limit, and what do you think your fellow-sister-lbs would say?

[Rocket J. Squirrel]

Izzy you look gorgeous (with a sly side to you).

A babe!

Thx for the pics

[Guest]

(knockout @ Nov. 10 2008,01:19) I wonder if someone here will pass your age-limit.

I guess you won't find anyone presenting themselves with pics here. But let's say we're all looking pretty young and handsome, what would YOU say about age-limit, and what do you think your fellow-sister-lbs would say?

I agree with the others Izzy€¦.You€™re Very cute! I do have to agree with what knockout asked €œWhat do you look for in a guy?€. It€™s easy to say €œOh I look for someone who€™s romantic€ or like some of the others say €œI€™m looking for someone who can take care of me.€€¦..€Taking care of me means€  $$$$$. Anytime you€™re with someone, it always means $$$, but when the first thing out someones mouth is discussing how much are you going to give me each month, this is the turn off. The ones who live here in LOS, or in Bangkok like I do and as well as a few others have all heard the €œrelationship€ stories of farangs going home and arranging the Western Union money orders to be sent on a monthly basis. Welcome to the world of farang/bargirl relationships.

I was just having this discussion with Vivian yesterday and she has always claimed that TRUST is the issue with her and the other girls when it comes to relationships, as I told her, it is with us too. She claims it€™s hard to trust a guy who comes into a bar and offers her $1,000/$1,500 for her services and tells her various stories. The more she knows the people, I€™m sure the more the stories change. The same goes for us with the girls. Too many times we have heard the stories from particular girls and like expected, the stories change to suit the situation. Having had a long term one on one relationship with a particular LB this year (the 3rd I have had in my 48 years), I have heard the stories and the nonsense that is said amongst the girls. But I still consider myself a newbie in the world of LB life. I am in no way an expert and am always learning, but I also feel that there is a sense of bullshit on both sides.

Even this past weekend, I was talking with a very cute lb who was working at a stall down in Victory Monument and though she€™s never has worked the bars, or at least claims she hasn€™t, she said that meeting foreign guys is hard because they think all lb€™s are bargirls or they think they are embarrassed to approach them, especially in public. Well, I€™m not embarrassed!...haha But I am also NEVER embarrassed to walk with a lb in public either. As I mentioned this past weekend in a previous post that was discussing going in €œthe backdoor of hotels€ so they weren€™t seen out with the lb€¦.this is such bullshit. Whenever I have been out with my former girlfriends, I always was proud to be with them, even if they weren€™t looking their best. Often times, when a lb looks outstanding, it takes some work to get that good looking and sometimes they don€™t feel like putting all of the makeup and stuff on and they don€™t always look like the cover girls when you first meet them€¦haha

So Izzy, be honest and enlighten us with what you think is the ideal boyfriend/mate is. Granted you€™re going to be flooded with messages saying€¦..€your description, that€™s me€, so be prepared, but I truly am honestly am interested in your opinion. If you want to be more private about it, message me and I will reply, but I wish for once someone would say what they really want from a relationship other than romance.

Once again Izzy, you€™re adorable so keep the pictures coming.

Nhscotsman

PS...Like this picture the best, you have GREAT legs!!! I just wish it was straight...lol

[mirimark]

(kahuna @ Nov. 09 2008,00:31) I'll take the younger inexperienced rockers...

Me Too.

[Guest]

I never did say what I prefer.....haha

Given the options, I would prefer a young 20 - 30 year old non-working girl, but I believe there are working girls that want out of the business and they too can make great girlfriends.

Look at the GREAT relationship I had over the past year with the 28 year old beauty, it's over but I still have a great friend and I wouldn't trade that for anything!

Nhscotsman

[geosight]

easy ,, young ones for me ..if I want a political debate , i'll ring my dad

[Guest]

(knockout @ Nov. 10 2008,01:19) Thanks for showing up Izzy.

You are wonderful

I change my mind in a glimpse of a moment (the story of my life) (one part of it anyway). You are just right for me.

Now let me turn this upside down.
What is your opinion of age?
A young beauty like yourself. What is your true opinion on man's age.

I wonder if someone here will pass your age-limit.

I guess you won't find anyone presenting themselves with pics here. But let's say we're all looking pretty young and handsome, what would YOU say about age-limit, and what do you think your fellow-sister-lbs would say?

Hi to you Knockout and nhscotsman and to everyone...
Well, I thanks you for all the compliments..

Regarding you're questions, For me age is not really an issue when it comes to finding the man for me. But 30-60 y/o are the majority for me to find really serious guy finding love and they are more romantic and really matured enough to handle good Long Distance relationship. The ideal guy for me is someone who knows how to make a girl happy, someone romantic , loving , not afraid to take out a girl like me, show affection in the public, generous and spontaneous in all fields.
Honesty is also the best policy.

As of the issue about money $$$$$, well, I can understand why some guys would doubt about it but sometimes it is a way of showing how genuine you are for this girl. I admit I like recieving gifts and surprises but never ask from a guy unless I really badly need a help. But if you feel that you are being abused or this girl is asking too much or asking money every single day after you send, then that is the time to realize she is not looking for love but just after your bucks...
Sometimes Western man is what asian girls or Lb believes a life saving for them or us and they are more open-minded than local men. I think that's why some of us dating foreign people than local men.
all in all, it is not just about your $$$$$.. Just give the best for the girl you chose to love to make her feel you are right for her.
But I also believe that being Trusted is greater than being Loved...

[Guest]

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(izZyLiciOuS @ Nov. 10 2008,14:46)

The ideal guy for me is someone who knows how to make a girl happy, someone romantic , loving , not afraid to take out a girl like me, show affection in the public, generous and spontaneous in all fields.
Honesty is also the best policy.

But I also believe that being Trusted is greater than being Loved...

Well, Izzy, you€™re very welcome with regards to the thanks about the compliments about both your looks and your frankness.

Before any further comments Izzy, one comment I have for you regarding your statement:

The ideal guy for me is someone who knows how to make a girl happy, someone romantic , loving , not afraid to take out a girl like me, show affection in the public, generous and spontaneous in all fields.
Honesty is also the best policy.

Izzy, you need to park your image of yourself as a ladyboy and see yourself as a beautiful woman. I personally think that any guy that isn't PROUD to have you on his arm, isn't worth having on your arm. Do you understand Izzy? You're running the show with regards to your life and the men you have in it. OK, now that I got that done...haha You're a cutie by the way! Anyway......back to the subject at hand.

It€™s nice to hear someone state the things you said. I suspect finding a genuine good guy isn€™t always the easiest thing to do in this town (Bangkok). I walk around here every day and see foreigners who look at women like they are pieces of meat and to be honest with you, it gets old. Considering the majority of my friends are Asian women (ladyboys and GG€™s) and I hear the stories from them regarding men and their behavior towards them. I was shocked to learn that the majority of them at some time have been approached by foreigners and asked if they were bargirls. They say after awhile, its not a big deal, but I find it a very bog deal.

Izzy, you are like many I have asked regarding the questions about dating foreigners and the answer is similar too. Most women I know consider the prime age range between 30-50, you went as far as to say 60, but they have all told me the same thing too that they wanted maturity versus immaturity that a 20 year old would usually offer them. Also, if the girl is focused in her life, usually the bar scene and the drinking scene usually in a turn off too.

Having a solid long distance relationship doesn€™t work, I have never seen one that did and so I am guessing you would prefer a guy who lives in town. Izzy, you never said, are you in Bangkok or Thailand?

I showed a ladyboy friend of mine your letter today and she said that she and every girl she knows wants her ideal guy to be just as you said:
€œThe ideal guy for me is someone who knows how to make a girl happy, someone romantic, loving , not afraid to take out a girl like me, show affection in the public, generous and spontaneous in all fields. Honesty is also the best policy.€

She said also said that you sound like you have your head on straight and you sound like trust may be a bit of an issue with you, but it is will every woman, especially here in LOS. But with the money comments you made about liking to receive gifts, we all do and it€™s expected to receive gifts when you date someone seriously. Like I have always said, but it also goes both ways too. Often when I was dating someone, nothing makes a person feel better than to receive a gift. For me it doesn€™t take a 5,000 baht gift to make me smile either. I have had women buy me a 30 baht gift and just knowing you were thought of, is what it is all about.

Western men have trust issues too and you have to be an idiot not to realize that some Asian women look at us as life savers, but I was also so misinformed prior to moving here. I always thought EVERY woman I met wanted to go to America and I was 100% wrong. I have dated my share of Thai women in the 4 years I have been coming here (2 year visiting Thailand and 2 years living in Thailand) and very one has said they DO NOT want to live in America. I was initially shocked but after awhile, I realized I was wrong in thinking it. Oh, there are the ones who do want to live overseas, but none that I have met. All of mine are quite happy living in Thailand. But I was also wrong in thinking that all Thai men are drinkers and cheaters too. Many do it, maybe the majority, but not all do it. Just the same can be said for farangs, a lot of them drink and cheat, but not all do and there are the good ones out there who are real €œfinds€!

I too think honesty is the best policy too and giving your girlfriend a 100% commitment is so important too for the success of the relationship to be . I loved your comment €œI also believe that being Trusted is greater than being Loved...€

From the sounds of it Izzy, you have your head on good and straight and I also believe you are going to find a great guy to love you forever because you are a €œKEEPER€ from the sound of it.

Keep the pictures coming Izzy, you€™re a darling and I always love looking at someone who€™s as cute as you are and who is a €œKEEPER€ too.

Hugs,
Nhscotsman

[rxpharm]

Nhscotsman, Izzy is one of our few Filipina lb forum members. She is very good looking no doubt!

Izzy in answer to your question - the age of an lb doesn't matter as much as the chemistry. I've met some very nice young lbs, and many very nice mature lbs.

Glad to see you are having interaction with the guys here - I am sure you can filter out those who have only one thing on their minds!

I am reposting one of your photos straightened up for your biggest fan on the board so far. Sorry about the bottom white corners - a side effect of rotating and cropping the photo.

[Guest]

(rxpharm @ Nov. 10 2008,18:05) Nhscotsman, Izzy is one of our few Filipina lb forum members. She is very good looking no doubt!

Izzy in answer to your question - the age of an lb doesn't matter as much as the chemistry. I've met some very nice young lbs, and many very nice mature lbs.

Glad to see you are having interaction with the guys here - I am sure you can filter out those who have only one thing on their minds!

I am reposting one of your photos straightened up for your biggest fan on the board so far. Sorry about the bottom white corners - a side effect of rotating and cropping the photo.

Thanks for fixing the picture...haha She looks better straight!

I have never spoken to Izzy before but she seems to have her head on pretty good and she seems to be well spoken too. I like a ladyboy who is well spoken. To often I meet them here in town and they are limited in what they can discuss. Izzy seems a bit above some I have spoken too. Personally, I don't look at Izzy as a futire conquest, I have enough going on here in Bangkok if I want a steady one. I can go to any mall in town and see plenty of non-working LB's to date. Could she be a future wanna be, sure, why not, I stopped saying NEVER when I first met my past ex-LB girlfriend. I swore I would never date her and spent almost year with her...haha, so, so much for NEVER....

It's always nice to see a lady post on here who seems genuine and sincere withher feelings. We seem to have some great ladies posting on here and I say Thank You to all of them too.

Nhscotsman

[Guest]

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(nhscotsman @ Nov. 10 2008,17:35) [quote=izZyLiciOuS,Nov. 10 2008,14:46]

Having a solid long distance relationship doesn€™t work, I have never seen one that did and so I am guessing you would prefer a guy who lives in town. Izzy, you never said, are you in Bangkok or Thailand?

I am from the Philippines, representing my own country as the land of beauties..lol
I prefer dating man outside the country as I wanted to travel and see different culture. I am stuck here and so sick seeing same places.. I even want to relocate someday...


So anyway, back to the topic guys and posters, which do you really prefer...???
it seems that I am being put into the subject now after posting my pics..lol