Banana is back and says hi.

[Guest]

She has never asked me for money ,, yes i have given her money i try and help her out when i can , and i buy her things  when i am with her or for xmas , valentines and birthday ( she turns 22 on the 27 oct ) but she also bought me a birthday present , i have met her family and even done the ceremony where all the friends of her family come and tie little strings on both our wrists , i forget the name of it .
I would love to hear any theories on what it might be if it is not love .

[Khun Chilli]

Monkeyman,

Banana is a great girl ... and I wud be happy for you 2 if it works. But as SB said to take a Thai out from Thailand must be well considered.

The theory of love is easy ... we all need our living. If you can't support her then she needs to work and can't spend the time with you. After you leave she has to do the same with the next guy. And beside all, if she is not stupid, she needs to save for the time when she is over her best years.

[stogie bear]

To be honest, me and Kui wouldn't last a year outside Thailand. We have been steady for almost 3 years now, but I don't think that we would last too long outside her country.

[Khun Chilli]

SB ... I believe you. Be now married since 8 years and I believe we are only lucky becoz we stay in Thailand. When Farang talks too much she is at her place and with her friends. By all not to forget the ranks:

1. the kids
2. the family
....
....
XX. the lucky guy

[Guest]

Thanks for your input guys ,, it is food for thought ,, never the less she is very keen to come back to Australia for 3 or 6 months ,, when i told her we would try and get another visa for another 3 months in december she replied ,,what about 6 months ?

[Guest]

Good point Stogie...

By the way looking forward to my "date"with her (Banana) on sunday...

[Khun Chilli]

Monkey .... cool .... enjoy yr time, life is short. I am always saying if we talk about the $$ .... wife and kids are the most expensive and hopefully it turns out in a good investment.

[Guest]

Its all good MrDragon hope you have a good time ,,
I hope you can be discrete about information u have gained here.
What said in forum ,i hope stays in forum .

[stogie bear]

Well - I'm not an expert, but I'd consider the first few months in Australia to be a probationary thing. If you can get her to give you her thoughts openly and honestly after a few months in 'stralia and you still think she is genuinely happy there; I'll have been proved wrong, and damn glad to be proved wrong at that!

[Guest]

Better not tell me where you live monkeyman or I might have to come steal her away from you

Seriously mate I hope things work out for you. I heard you are in Melbourne? If so would love to catch up for a beer one day. I am in the northern suburbs.