Bar girl diplomacy?

[bigmick22]

nice gun

[stogie bear]

The way you act and react in a bar depends on how long you are here for.

If you want to go to the same bars every night for a couple of weeks and bar fine someone new each time then be up front and explain very clearly in words and actions that you are a butterfly.

Do NOT get in to the habit of being overly generous on the first night as your pattern of behaviour on the first day will be what is expected from you every day.

Then again - if you are here with plenty of spending money and you like to splash it around - go ahead. It's your money, right?

Be absolutely clear and direct about what you expect the girl to do and how long you want her to do it for. Make her nod her head and repeat it back to you.

If you intend to take different girls from the same bar then tell them up front before they have a chance to go back and tell all their chums that they have snagged a junior for his entire holiday.

Even if you don't intend to butterfly - tell them you are gonna anyway.

Don't assume that because you have said something that it will be understood or even attended to! Get THEM to tell YOU that they have understood your requirements so later when it all falls apart you have the "Well - you did say..." argument on your side.

Don't get drunk.

Politely ignore mamasans and service girls. They are all worthless leeches.

If you like someone and want to see them again they would prefer you to go back to the bar and bar fine them. It's a lazy option to just call them and ask them to show up...

(Having said that - I almost always call them because the shitpits to me are a horrible place to spend even 5 minutes of my valuable lifetime.)

Don't fall in love. They are hookers and a lot smarter than you are. It never works out and you just look ridiculous.

Be clean and smell nice.

Don't lose your temper and definitely do not provoke anyone. Your friends are all in our crappy home town asleep and their chums are hiding in rat holes that you can't even see.

Learn to say "Mee-ow, cap!" to everyone that you want to avoid and do it with a big smile on your face. If they ask you questions, just say it again and again and again... with a big smile on your face.

If you look for trouble then you'll find it.

Just be nice. English people may struggle with this at first, but it quickly becomes second nature.

[Snick]

Learn to say "I do not understand" in Thai....confuses the hell out of 'em.

My Cow Jai

[1hotholder]

what is ? Have an ample supply of Kamagra and a Billy69 cock ring

[ciobha]

(stogie bear @ Sep. 26 2008,11:19) Don't get drunk.



Don't fall in love. They are hookers and a lot smarter than you are. It never works out and you just look ridiculous.

Don't get drunk.
Ahh fuck.
Don't fall in love. They are hookers and a lot smarter than you are. It never works out and you just look ridiculous.

Ahh fuck again.

[El_hefe]

Thanks for all the input, as I said, I rarely went back to the same place more than a couple of times in the past, I walk around cities like a man possessed, heat or not. I'm older now & if La Bamba, or Guess, or Ezy, etc is a pleasant enough place I'd just as soon hang out a bit & enjoy the moment & I didn't want to soil the nest.

[Front242]

Discovered on the weekend that I need to learn to say "Fuck Off" with a smile.
'Cos when I do it with a smile, it loses the "Fuck Off" effect.

...ended up with me just walking out of the place.

[donnnnnny]

Personally, i feel no reason what so ever to let whores know that "i am a butterfly' but i do because it makes life easier in thailand.After a while of you being around and fucking everything that moves, they will get the picture and in time will joke to you about being a butterfly and "you " falang loo maak" chalat due.
Hey its your money spend it how you like
the flash

[titian]

(stogie bear @ Sep. 26 2008,11:19) Politely ignore mamasans and service girls. They are all worthless leeches.

I have had a couple of run ins with mamasans and service girls.

I took a service girl from Long Gun and had a good time. I took one from Obsession and she was useless, but I did get attentive service the next time I went in there.

In Angel Witch, the mamasan asked if I would buy her a drink. I said no, and she went away. Interestingly, she was a LB. In Cascade, I had two mamasans ask if I would buy them drinks. I told them that they should be buying me a drink as I was a good customer. They failed to see the funny side of this, and I left soon after - having exchanged phone numbers with the girl I was talking to, and she came to see me the following day. I felt slightly guilty not paying the barfine, but the girl was happy enough to pay me a visit in the afternoon.

[donnnnnny]

(titian @ Sep. 29 2008,18:11)

(stogie bear @ Sep. 26 2008,11:19) Politely ignore mamasans and service girls. They are all worthless leeches.

I have had a couple of run ins with mamasans and service girls.

I took a service girl from Long Gun and had a good time.  I took one from Obsession and she was useless, but I did get attentive service the next time I went in there.

In Angel Witch, the mamasan asked if I would buy her a drink.  I said no, and she went away.  Interestingly, she was a LB.  In Cascade, I had two mamasans ask if I would buy them drinks.  I told them that they should be buying me a drink as I was a good customer.  They failed to see the funny side of this, and I left soon after - having exchanged phone numbers with the girl I was talking to, and she came to see me the following day.  I felt slightly guilty not paying the barfine, but the girl was happy enough to pay me a visit in the afternoon.

Good post.i have always maintained that mamasan's are just worthless, and now it seems that the great stogie is batting for my team on this subject. Anyone who thinks buying mamasan's a drink will get you better service and, better informations is living in dream land.You have a better chance of finding the type of girl you like by just asking around in the bar.
all mamasans can fall in a dark hole and never come out

[harley quinn]

(1hotholder @ Sep. 27 2008,00:12) what is ? Have an ample supply of Kamagra and a Billy69 cock ring

Go to the pinned trip reports my friend and learn at the feet of the Master

[eclipse]

Amazing advice. All I say is HAVE FUN

- If something is not gonna make you happy stay away
- Smile at the girls, wink at them , spank their asses, fondle boobies, take whoever will make you happy with you, not the one you think you are supposed to take
- If you dont like them send them away and get another one (or two)
- Take the girls from one bar and go into another to pick some more

- Do whatever you want and dont let a boy on hormones spoil your vacation




PS: If you follow the directions above the girls will know you that you are a butterfly (they will get the message and deal with you accordingly)