Are you married?

[stogie bear]

(orgasmaddict @ Jun. 01 2008,01:37) good question why don't you start a poll?

Done!

[seamus]

(daveduke007 @ May 31 2008,22:32) I just split up with my "teerak" Am, Im feeling pretty sad that she will have to return to the bar to be honest but had to let her go for her sake as well as mine

Sorry to hear that Mr Duke ,fuck it another one goes wrong

[ciobha]

BTW afbholly,welcome to the forum sir and an excellent opening post.Certainly a lot better than the usual do you have contact information for x,y and z.

[kleetora]

DD007, sorry to hear about the split. Seems to me that some ladies (both gg and lbs) have crossed wires and don't know a good thing when it smacks them in the face.

Similar to Qwerty, I am in a secure relationship with a GG who doesn't know about my penchant for lbs. A little tryst now and then satisfies the desires. I imagine if I am outted, I will shift down the options list somewhere. Maybe I'll be lucky enough to write a TR like the chap who's boinking everything with his wife or the Perthcouple.

[jimslim]

Married yes  

But now single again - lock up your ladyboys  

[azza33]

(daveduke007 @ Jun. 01 2008,06:32) I just split up with my "teerak" Am, Im feeling pretty sad that she will have to return to the bar to be honest but had to let her go for her sake as well as mine

Sorry to read that Dave

Long distance relationships are the hardest at the best of times...

You gave it ago and I admire you for your efforts!

Best of luck to both you and Am in the future.

[Guest]

First things dave duke sorry to hear best wishes.

For me married to lovely malaysian girl but enjoy the company of ladyboys. This is second marriage will there be a third nope, would i consider marry a lady boy nope.

[Guest]

Thank you everyone for you great answers and thoughts on this subject...I greatly appreciate it! When I found your forum, I finally felt like there are people who shared similar views as I do about ladyboys. I hope to be a more active part of the community!

I am originally from San Francisco, and now live in Hong Kong and have been traveling to Asia and Thailand for many years. The reason why I asked the question is that I am engaged to a very pretty Filipino GG (from the States)...I have a major case of Yellow Fever ...and I am considering what I should do.

I have tried to date ladyboys both in San Francisco and in Asia...and while the sex is amazing and unbelievable...better than a GG could ever be in my opinion...having a relationship with one is an entirely different manner. In my experience I have yet to find one that is normal and without drama... I have had my share of drama relationships and I'm done with that for good...so I have almost given up on the idea of having a long term relationship with a LB (but if anyone thinks differently on this, I would very much like to know that it is possible to have a drama free relationship with a LB).

So my GG fiance is wonderful, but not a LB. Most of the time I'm fine with that...but, as I'm sure you all appreciate there are certain needs only a LB can satisfy. So, I guess, its a long way of asking if you think its a bad idea to be in a relationship with a GG and still have fun time to time with a LB? I'm ok with fooling around on the side, and have butterflied around a lot here in Asia but one has to be careful with STD's, etc. Full disclosure here is that my GG would not approve.

[bigmick22]

(ciobha @ May 31 2008,20:28) Never have been married and never will be.Even before i discovered the wonderful world of ladyboys,i new that i didn't want to ruin a good,sory make that great, social life,just for the sake of a steady partner.Having the freedom to go where i want,when i want-finances depending,without a guilt trip or telling lies,for me is basically all i want in life.

what he said

[Guest]

Im 23 and engaged to a uni student in Asok
Still like to get my fix at Ratchada soapies, Rainbow gogos and the occasional LB

[andre459]

Single for now (never say never).

I'm having to much fun to mess things up with a relationship.

[fleeing]

(nigelr69 @ Jun. 01 2008,03:19) married twice gg's however my latest found out about my long term affair with an lb and since then it's been slowly downhill....
Any fellow members out there who have been in a similar situation?

Well, I spent about 7 years toing and froing with LBs while at the same time trying to hold a GG relationship together.To be honest, one of the worst things was that I found the GG less and less interesting sexually.

In any close relationship, your partner is (often) able to 'read' you better than yourself. So they can probably 'feel' that something is not right without knowing what it is, and this can affect their own confidence. Ultimately I realised that this situation was not fair to either of us.

I think that trying to maintain the facade of a relationship just to have some kind of 'security' is a waste of time. In any relationship LB or GG you're only 'secure' as long as things are good. If you're getting your goodies from LBs then obviously your GG relationship is not good and not secure.

DD. Sorry to hear about things not working out for you.  I hope you can share some of your experiences, so that others may possibly learn from them.

[Grinder]

Good post fleeing. Your thoughts and those of nigel69 earlier are similar to my own

[pacman]

(afbholly @ Jun. 01 2008,13:24) So my GG fiance is wonderful, but not a LB.  Most of the time I'm fine with that...but, as I'm sure you all appreciate there are certain needs only a LB can satisfy.
.........
 Full disclosure here is that my GG would not approve.

Welcome to the forum afbholly.

Are you familiar with the term "wanting your cake & eating it too" ??

I anticipate a disaster in the making here, don't get me wrong, I'm not wishing it on you, but years of the same old sex, particularly trying to include a sex life with bringing up children will lead to either unhappiness, a divorce or both.

You might want to think about what you really want, my advice is free, two divorce attorneys in a California court of law ....... you know what that will cost you.

[if you figure out a way to have both, wife & LB on the side, can you let us all know]

[jaime24]

for me its single life at the moment, not neceserely through choice, my last relationship was for 4 months with a Taiwanise Ts from Sydney, while a great and very atractive girl, i find the mind games and also the constant need for attention to much also the fact that she was in Sydney and im not didnt help too.
am getting the the stage where not sure i would want another relationship with a Ts, and starting to think maybe a long term relationship either with a GG or a Ts maybe jusy isnt ment to be,
which i some times think is a shame as would like to share my life with someone, on the plus side i get to do what i want when i want, but do some times feel like im missing out on a lot.