Where is the love?

[Naang Faa]

(bk120 @ Jan. 21 2008,20:32) I find that very odd. I mean why would you bad mouth a certain group of people then want to "roll in the sack" with them a minute later.

That is a damn hypocrite. Then again the world is run by hypocrites. Look at our politicians here in

I always treat the ladies I meet with respect- I take them out to eat, ask what they want, are they comfortable,... Most of the time they respond with kindness in return.

Hi Bk120,
Thank you for the understanding .

x

[Stewart]

(Naang Faa @ Jan. 21 2008,19:58)
   Hi Todd,
              It's not the tales of sex romps,that bother me,i don't even read them..
   It's the T bashers who twist the knife..
                                                               
                                                                   x

Who are these people?

[mesmer]

(Naang Faa @ Jan. 21 2008,18:56) Why is it that some members of this forum seem
like it's their aim in life to to dehumanize,criticize
and generally just enjoy putting the boot in to
T-girls..
Using all or most,to try and hide your disdain
for a entire class of people..
And then go out looking for them the next day?
                                                                             
                                                                         x

I think its mostly about resentment and anger. These guys need to denigrate the girls they see because these women have power over them. The power to "make" them pay monetarily and otherwise for their attention. Denigrating them makes the guy feel temporary a little better about himself - it alleviates the anger and resentment they feel. "I might be a sex tourist, but she's JUST a fucking lying whore" Of course they know the truth. In reality this "lying whore" is their master and they hate her for it. The solution? - more abuse directed at their master
Of course the door can swing both ways €“ a master is not a master if she/he has no slaves to serve them.
And some of these women hate the men who serve them cause they need them to become a "Queen" sorta speak

[FB-lover!]

(Naang Faa @ Jan. 21 2008,18:56) Why is it that some members of this forum seem
like it's their aim in life to to dehumanize,criticize
and generally just enjoy putting the boot in to
T-girls..
Using all or most,to try and hide your disdain
for a entire class of people..
And then go out looking for them the next day?
                                                                             
                                                                         x

I totally agree, actually...I always dislike that stuff, and I usually end up feeling pretty disgusted after reading their posts.  To be totally honest, and risk getting banned for life, I don't feel much respect for a lot of the guys here.  I think honestly, they're just really ashamed of their own sexuality, and take it out on others under a fake name.

Another thing I always wonder is, how totally ashamed would most of the bm's here be, to have people at home know what they actually do. That's the real problem I think. If someone is living a total lie, then they made a major wrong turn somewhere, and now they hate themselves. I must admit, it sounds like hell.

I'm a professional artist, so...that does probably make it easier for me to be honest with people around me. I make a living being myself, not posing as something else.  I wouldn't even mind people knowing who I was, actually...if it didn't mean a lot of ridiculous spam, as a result

[Naang Faa]

(mesmer @ Jan. 22 2008,00:48) I think its mostly about resentment and anger. These guys need to denigrate the girls they see because these women have power over them. The power to "make" them pay monetarily and otherwise for their attention. Denigrating them makes the guy feel temporary a little better about himself - it alleviates the anger and resentment they feel. "I might be a sex tourist, but she's JUST a fucking lying whore" Of course they know the truth. In reality this "lying whore" is their master and they hate her for it. The solution? - more abuse directed at their master
Of course the door can swing both ways €“ a master is not a master if she/he has no slaves to serve them.
And some of these women hate the men who serve them cause they need them to become a "Queen" sorta speak

Hi Mesmer,
Do you think there is a slight chance that some
guys have a problem accepting their own desire for
ladyboys?

x

[mesmer]

I think it's extremely common and unfortunate. What is that saying "poor is the man who's pleasure depends on the permission of another" These guys can't even give themselves permission to enjoy their lives. very sad actually

[katoeylover]

Personally i enjoy the full GFE and to that end have taken the same girl for the past 5 holidays, nearly exclusively. We go away from the bars for a period of time and usually have a great time.

In answer to your post, i believe a number of posters who have never been to Thailand and have probably never had a date with a TS are trying to figure out their sexuality, by being turned on, yet at the same time being disgusted with their feelings. These are the ones you are referring to.

Most of the BM's who visit Thailand regularly are pretty normal guys who treat their dates with respect and dignity.

[mesmer]

I don't know much about LOS, planning my first trip for this summer/early fall. All I can speak about with some degree of certainty is where I live in the states €“ Boston €“ a lot of guys treat the girls like shit here and vice versa €“ one girl actually has a tee shirt that reads
" chasers R 4 $ not love" she also happens to be the most popular LB in Boston. LOL
crazy

[harley quinn]

My view is that the sort of people who denigrate LBs are probably the sort of people who denigrate,women, other races, other viewpoints and are basically sad sorry excuses for human beings.

Since joining this particualr persuasion I have met some charming and fun LBs, some that are a real pain and some to whom I feel nothing - just like I do with GGs and males (should that be GMs - just wondered).

The sisters group on this forum appears to be formed of articulate and intelligent people (grovel) that they happen to be transgendered is just a fact of their lives. Who they are matters - what they are is their business.

[Naang Faa]

Thanks for the feedback guys,

x

[statuesque]

(harley quinn @ Jan. 22 2008,18:34) Who they are matters - what they are is their business.

May this reverberate through the farthest corners of the world!  
Its true, while being transgender is a big thing for us, its not the ONLY thing that would define us as persons. Theres still lots and lots of layers to recognize. Were also students, or caretakers, or neighbours, or law offenders, or even heartbreakers as well.  


S

[jimslim]

People who visit this site come from all walks of life , they only have one thing in common - a sexual attraction (or curiosity ) for ladyboys .

Just like any walk of life some people are nice guys some are not , and lets face it Thailand attracts some lets just say .... strange types sometimes

I agree with Katoeylover , by in large the majority of BMs you will meet in Thailand are nice guys , and also respectful of their objects of desire .

I normally find a guy who feels the need to be constantly nasty or negative shows more about his own personality (or lack of it ) and hang ups and is obviously not too happy in his own life .

And hey girls , great little section , but I want some cooking tips

only joking

[Monkey]

(jimslim @ Jan. 22 2008,19:41) I normally find a guy who feels the need to be constantly nasty or negative shows more about his own personality (or lack of it ) and hang ups and is obviously not too happy in his own life .

Some people seem to think, albeit on a subconcious level, that they lift themselves up by bringing others down, whereas in actual fact they don't. It just makes them a worse person imo

(Voltaire @ 1700s) We are all full of weakness and errors, let us mutually pardon each other our follies - it is the first law of nature.

[bigmick22]

I think I've missed something - who's been denigrating the girls?

[divertwo]

..is it those guys that say.."once I get my rocks off I kick her out so I can sleep'?.....or the ones that seem preoccupied with the girls that take drugs, cause fights and steal? Issues that shouldn't be directed as gender based.....