Divorced and detoured

[rxpharm]

There is a topic in the Academic Forum, while a different subject, may help add to this discussion: Old Bugger-ers, Why we Love LBs at this age

[stogie bear]

I have a lot of friends that are just purely gay...

There's no such thing.

[FB-lover!]

that's really true, come to think of it more carefully.  but you know...i have friends who you know without a doubt are gay from like 3 city blocks away. they all tell me they were always like that.

then there's this other guy i know, about 60yo, most gay seeming man i've ever met (like a cartoon really)..and talks obsessively about nothing but asian gg's, non stop 24/7.  go figure  

i know...

[statuesque]

(FB-lover! @ Jan. 25 2008,11:33) THEN...the worrying part is finding one outside of the p4p arena that isn't on drugs, or only into shopping! haha (sorry, girls it's just what i see a lot.)

*gasps* How dare you regard to shopping ever so lightly!  
Do you know how many calories you can burn if you shop as much as girls do?!? Better yet, understanding the elaborate art of shopping can make or break a relationship from a male side, which can lead to divorce eventually (going back to the topic)!    


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[FB-lover!]

  ok ok!  

..it's worth it (and yes, even fun to watch) with the right girl, ha

ps - maybe someone has had a few divorced men in their life...i don't know who   ...maybe they get smarter

[statuesque]

Besides, if you do allow her to shop, Im sure shed allow you to do your own "shopping" with her when you get back home. Equity of resources   


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[Guest]

(FB-lover! @ Jan. 25 2008,16:51)  ...maybe they get smarter

   Okay Gomez, You just gave me a great idea for an avatar!

I've got to find a picture of Don Adams and then
"photo-shop" in a picture of an cute LB... Maybe Gitar?

Not sure...  Maybe a more "Femme Bot" looking LB?

Any suggestions?

I'll resize or divorce this avatar later....

[FB-lover!]

(statuesque @ Jan. 25 2008,17:20) Besides, if you do allow her to shop, Im sure shed allow you to do your own "shopping" with her when you get back home. Equity of resources   


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I admit, helping the right girl to feel special...stronger than viagra for me.

Okay, a question for you: would you say that these 'divorced men' you're referring to, are they generally nice for a girl to know? Just curious about why you asked the question in the beginning.
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PanzerX - that's really funny! I'm sure the humour of this will be lost on most here..but American 60's-sitcom characters with their LB's  How 'bout Mr. Spock doing a 'vulcan-mind-meld'? haha

[SwoonTV]

one alimony payment is hard enough, shacking up with a dude is safer if it falls apart again!

[newwriter]

(FB-lover! @ Jan. 25 2008,09:13) Personally, I think it's something of a probability thing...and an amount of time it generally takes to 'figure something out' - at least as much as we ever can. People are 'usually' divorced in their late thirties or so - for me I was never actually married, but always with GG's, and sometimes for long periods of time.

I never felt 'straight' in the classical sense, but am not attracted to men. So...what the heck is that gonna mean to a 25 year old?

So, after a millions relationships with GG's, it started to dawn on me (overwhelmingly so) that it had to be LB's for me - who, for whatever reason, float my boat I don't think many 25 year old's have the wherewithall to figure that out and accept it - I still don't understand it ...but accept it

It's pretty scary being so accurately pigeon-holed with a single post. It's as if you know me and my story.

Nice call FB Lover.

How do you look in a dress? What are you doing for dinner?

[SwoonTV]

can i be the third in ur party???

[FB-lover!]

Yes, Swoon...u can haha
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ps - newwriter, you could do better than me I hope for your sake!

[ohnoriceagain]

I fall within that demographic...40's, divorced. Acute observation as I have also noticed the same trend. I think, in my case, that the internet had a lot to do with it. When I was growing up, they were drag queens or transvestites. Now, with hormones or boob jobs, they are women with penis's. Cocks aren't that scary but hairy chests, muscles, whiskers just don't jive with femininity. Ladyboys are of slight build, and try to be feminine even more than gg's. Long hair, cute faces, nice figures....very sexy.

[statuesque]

(FB-lover! @ Jan. 27 2008,02:32) Okay, a question for you: would you say that these 'divorced men' you're referring to, are they generally nice for a girl to know?  Just curious about why you asked the question in the beginning.

Uhm, I cannot really say for the general population of divorced men since the first time I started dating was about four years ago and only had two previous relationships ever. What I can only tell you is how these guys have been with me, as divorced men, and that they have taught me so much. I dont know if being divorced enlightened them enough about relationships because there are those who are in their fourth marriage already and still believe the wife should serve them 24/7 or something. So I wouldnt know if being divorced increases the chances of a guy to be nicer, more mature, etc in a relationship. Well, at least he should be!!!  

[harley quinn]

Trust me divorce causes scales to fall from your eyes, assumptions to fly away and removes all sense of aggressiveness from relationships allowing for mature and sensitive behaviour.

Said aggressiveness is transferred to that fine body of leeches - the legal professsion - after whose attentions being fucked up the arse by a ladyboy is totally painless.

Not that I'm bitter