Should forum readers stab each other in the back?

[Guest]

I got a few more examples this week in my mailbox of why it's probably better for JaiDee to not even post up here at all; you know, more shit from ladyboys who I KNOW do not read this forum and yet they hear things about what I said from guys who DO read here.

Are ye 12-year olds or what?

grow up and get with the program......some of the shit we say here should be between the guys and kept in the club. if you want to join a sewing circle and chat with the girls than don't read here.

[Guest]

That must be where the " love " come's in .
A site like this only help's these ladies . WHY dont they get it ? The sooner everyone stops falling in love and trying to impress the girls and then leave's after a week thinking that they have a REAL realationship going . Are far more clueless than they think they are. Sorry kid's you CANT marry them , you CANT bring them home . You will never move there to be with the one love. You use her , she uses you . It's over. Sure it's very hard to NOT think your all that when you are treated like a king by a beautiful lady that is willing to fuck you . ( like that happens where you live ) But when the money stop's , your finished Johnny .
Jaidee tries to help you and what does he get.. abuse !
The way to impress a " lady " is not by stepping on others to make you look bigger but by having a good heart.
Good heart is really what Jaidee mean's in Thai

[Tomcat]

This is bad news thats for certain and it sure aint me spilling the Beans. Im in London now anyway and still trying to pull a jagged  knife out of my own heart. The only Girl i was in touch with by e mail , the lovely KC3 Lin, never even new that i  logged on to ATS. No way man.

She wont even talk to me now because she has a job and a new boyfriend. Probably some scumbag who is sending her $$$ a month to keep her off the game.


Discretion is very important , even more so with the internet.

The other problem is of  "Chinese whispers" . The story gets more twisted each set of lips it passes through , especially in translation from one language to another. You can just imagine
how some of these stories are ending up .

I think that a Kangeroo court should be held for anyone spreading shit around and if found guilty then cut them off and
"Adios Amigos arsewhole"


TC

[Guest]

well, what's    funny is that it used to be MUCH worse.  I'll never forget hearing from Vicky at Casanova that she heard from one of the customers here that "I" said to only pay her 1000 for short time and she was pissed and  rightfully so.  Say what? when did I EVER say anything like that?  My rule of thumb is always "be fair"  with these models and that goes  with everything.

 Now, Stogie and others tell me that it's cool to  get trip reports and stories from guys like me and Snick and Stewart and others 'on the front lines', and  I don't mind  sharing  some of what I do; I have probably told you guys  maybe 10% of what REALLY goes on in my life and I don't mind doing that.   Until I get letters from girls  saying "why did you talk about what we did on the website"  or  "Johnny is mad  because he read that I was having sex with other guys", blah, blah, blah..... I got 3 letters this week that leave me shaking my head saying 'what a bunch of pussies', because I know for  a fact that the girls didn't read it here.   And, of course, these heroes that are telling the girls what is being said here always come out looking like the good guy to her  while mean ol'  JaiDee is turned into a distant relative of Satan.  And it doesn't have to be in person, TC; lots of these 12-year olds are writing the girls that they like and saying "guess what JD said today, honey?"


seems like I have to go back on the fence again and just talk about every day mundane shit, rather than piss anyone off.   pretty boring, huh?

   I had to delete a few threads after those letters rolled in....sorry.

 again,                          

[fancylighters]

Stab them in the back?

No. I'm aiming lower with my "pointy stick/"

[Guest]

Seems to me that this forum is an excellent place for us to openly and honesty exchange information. I know my travel experiences have been much better because of the information and advice I have received here.

We are a small community and we should be supporting each other. Information we learn should stay within the board. When you are out on the town have fun but keep information to yourself.

[Guest]

Maybe one of the downfall's of letting the public in . I have always said that this forum should be for members only. It would weed out ALOT of people like that , I think.

I also think that if you want to be a hero, PAY them 5000 for short time and then go on your merry god's gift to ladies way.
Now thats class

[Guest]

"I used HER; she used ME; neither of US seemed to care; WE were getting OUR share."
- Bob Seger

Who can put it better?
I dare YOU..........

Mr. Lonely

[liisawinkler]

this is bad news....I hope these girls are not from the Philippines..but oh well everyone is out for themselves nowadays and Jaidee knows that I never bitch or rant about anything....at least not since Minerva never bought a cellphone after I booked her with a couple of guys heheheh...and she got that bitching from me cause I wanted to be able to communicate with her in case she had any bookings but there she goes buying UBER fashionable clothes from the flea market which is her favorite hobby rather than buy that all-important mobile so I could SMS her if someone wanted to see her hihihihihih...this is all done in good spirit though as me and Minerva are the BESTest of friends these days hehehe

anyway back to the topic...goings-on in this board should never LEAVE this board or at least if it does.it should only concern the people involved and must not contribute to the detriment of personal relationships....

[stogie bear]

some of the shit we say here should be between the guys and kept in the club

Good luck enforcing that!

Unfortunately we are caught between inviting ladyboys to join in and read and post (and a lot of them do read the posts) and on the other hand, having an all guys back slapping love fest!

You just can't have it both ways on a public forum. And even if it was 'members only' and the girls were excluded you still couldn't rely on the 'brotherhood trysts' that you seem to think should apply to all of us.

People are gonna talk, and they are gonna talk about YOU! Deal with it if you post personal details here, when there is virtually no pretence even of hiding who you are!

Anyway - quit whining about being talked about. The whole scene here is a soap opera! Drama queens perched on every barstool and gossips in every bar!

Laugh it off and ignore it. Good grief, how serious can it be?

"Oh, JD - a guy who I was fucking for money told me that you slept with [insert enemy here]! I'll take his word for it even though he was obviously drunk and trying to impress me. So - why did you do it? And does this mean that you don't love me anymore?"

My answer? "Fuck off, skank. Your bullshit, I can live without!"

And it doesn't matter how much you complain, most of us would still rather be doing what you do for a living, compared to what we do!



(I've been paid through October. I'll say what I fooking like!)

(I'm sure I'll get emails about this 'cringe moment!')

[liisawinkler]

hahah Stogie Stogie.....

[Guest]

Jaidee,

Chin up you fine fellow ! You can never please all of the people all of the time as Bing Crosby once said,
"I don't know the key to success,but the key to failure is trying to please everybody".

You must continue to post here as you are arguably one of the most interesting and enlightening contributers around. I know that if you stopped posting this forum would lose its sparkle and I for one would certainly lose interest and stop as well.

I have to agree with Jeff1 who made some very valid and excellent points. You unfortunately cannot legislate for those cretins with a 1/4 inch of brain to be able to register this complex scene. They can barely remember there names and were they come from never mind the guy that helped them into the scene and no doubt indirectly or directly introduced them to there dream girls. The issue is the past is the past and if these idiots think that by erasing the past they can turn there new found girl into a vestil virgin I suggest they attend the nearest nuthouse and request a lobotomy !!

I am always amazed at the sheer ignorance of these neanderthals. Why do they think that there set of values and wallets can change anything? Do they think they are crusaders saving a ladyboy from a life of prostitution ? Do they require reverance for there holy work ? Do they expect eternal thanks for there selfish deeds ? How can anyone after a 1 or 2 week meeting with a ladyboy decide,
a) They are in love ?
b) It would be an excellent idea to send this girl B40K/month to keep her faithful to me and out of the bar, till I return next summer ?

What is even more disturbing is that you might assume that most of these guys would probably be young and inexperienced ( in more ways than 1). Oh no dear friends.

It is with great amusement that I was told a story about a guy in his early fifties - yes folks I shit you not ! Who decided with his infinate wisdom that he was sacred and enlightened enough to make a very popular ladyboy his girlfriend. He poured, literally, thousands of dollars into this wonderous enterprise while also contacting all the webmasters who had photos of his new girl telling them to get rid of them. He even moved closer by to be nearer his loved one presumably out of love and all the while she was showing off her gucci watch and her high fashion clothes while continuing hooking on the side doing short-time calls with guys she liked DESPITE him being close by !!!!!!!!!

Needless to say 18months later he disappeared and she was back dancing. Money busted , her ass now getting busted and no doubt his bank account was BUSTED real good !

" Let us remember that,as much has been given us,much will be expected from us,and that true homage comes from the HEART as well as the lips and shows itself in deeds"

You will never win a ladyboy girlfriend through your wallet or trying in vain to erase her internet past. I have been a real shit to Mr Stogie and will probably take the piss again but what he does not know yet is that I have the utmost respect and admiration for him !! ( Even if he does dress like a plate of beans negotiating there way down a cows alimentary canal !)
In his REAL wisdom he made all the sacrifices and genuine deeds/commitments necessary to obtain his chosen goal without the luxury of money or muscle, that is why he is the only other guy I know that has a successful and loving relationship with a ladyboy and Stogie however hollow this sounds - well done Sir and I wish you many happy years to come.

Jaidee, unfortunately you will always be the scapegoat for other peoples foul and juvenile inadequacies - it comes with the aqusition of greatness. Dismiss them as you would an overactive mosquito.

Bricktop

[Guest]

you guys missed the  whole point.....the ladyboys don't talk behind my back.....I say shit up here about the girls I have been with  and then it gets back to them because some pussy who is trying to impress them lets them know what I was saying here.   no biggie and   no 'cringe moment'  for stogie....I just wont  be telling any personal stories anymore [or at least not mentioning any names].   you lads  can say whatever you like  but the 10% of shite I have been relating up here will stay to myself from now on.

   really  no big deal and I am not trying to elicit sympathy from the cool guys that post up here on  a regular basis. I just wish that the 12-year olds who feel like they have to go running to their mailbox  to tell their favorite ladyboy  every time I say something up here really should become, you know, men?

[Guest]

 How can anyone after a 1 or 2 week meeting with a ladyboy decide,
a) They are in love ?
b) It would be an excellent idea to send this girl B40K/month to keep her faithful to me and out of the bar, till I return next summer ?

I am still waiting to tell the story of the greatest scam ever perpertrated on a farang by a ladyboy, who jacked this guy for about 30,000US over a 6 or 7 month period and he knew her for a total of about 3 weeks in that time. Last I heard this elder gentleman who really should know better was still sending large amounts of cash in the impossible hope of trying to buy her affections so I will withhold her name. hey, what the fuck, if she can get it, all the power to her! better him than me.

[Stewart]

 ( Even if he does dress like a plate of beans negotiating there way down a cows alimentary canal !)  

Magic!