Why do ladyboys lie so much?

[bigmick22]

What he said

[Guest]

You put it perfect Jimslim. They are not really lies just bedtime stories which all have happy endings!! They know the truth will ruin a good evening so they whisper sweet things in your ear!! Hey, I didn't recognize you with your new avatar.

[eltel]

I like to chuckle when I hear a lie from them.

I look at them and start to laugh.
Infact I ask questions that I know will be answered with a lie.

One LB I've been with a few times, finally admitted she had a bf after I told her I didn't give a fuck if she had one.

I asked if she gives him money. To which she lied and said no.
It makes me laugh....

The thing with these lb's lying to so many people is their stories get mixed up and it's easy to hear the lie (when she told you something else last time).

It's all a game..
One lb I went with told me she was married to a farang who sends her a hefty sum each month. He thinks she isn't working in the bar.
At least I'm not getting told a lie that big.

[viking1960]

To me this is a pretty innane question. It's like asking why do used carsalesman lie so much. It is to their advantage-it's the only reason anyone lies. They tell us what they think we want to hear, and sometimes it works and other times it doesn't. Everyone angles for what is best for them.

[Guest]

(viking1960 @ Jan. 25 2008,12:06) To me this is a pretty innane question.  It's like asking why do used carsalesman lie so much.  It is to their advantage-it's the only reason anyone lies.  They tell us what they think we want to hear, and sometimes it works and other times it doesn't.  Everyone angles for what is best for them.

Uhm, last time i checked this forum was about ladyboys, not used cars. I´m interested in lb´s, that´s why i asked.
You have a link to a forum for used carsalesmen? I´d love to check it out.

[qwerty]

the answer you probably looking for is that they feel disadvantaged. they'll say anything and do whatever to survive (not all of them, but many). they rarely have decent job prospects, is hard to find a real relationship, and their glory years go quickly. they feel its stacked against them. theyre just playing the game the way its played to them.

though the other posters who were observant enuf to admit we as customers of them and ggs lie a hell of a lot too, right on.

i dont always lie, but mix a few in for convenience/ or just fun sometimes. so i'm not much better!

[Fred_Nguyen]

(rick @ Jan. 21 2008,15:51) I do believe they lie more than gg´s and men.
It´s second nature to them somehow. I would like to hear what the experts(Fred) says. Any theory?
Is it their shitty hand they were given from start that makes them lie all the time? Is it the meds/drugs/alcohol combined with mental issues?

As if the middle-aged male whores who live on the down-low while they pursue their cock-fetishes in Thailand don't lie.

[Dieter]

The right song.....


And still there never seems to be a single penny left for me
That's too bad
In my dreams I have a plan
If I got me a wealthy man
I wouldn't have to work at all, I'd fool around and have a ball...

Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world

Aha-ahaaa

All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world

A man like that is hard to find but I can't get him off my mind
Ain't it sad
And if he happens to be free I bet he wouldn't fancy me
That's too bad

So I must leave, I'll have to go
To Las Vegas or Monaco
And win a fortune in a game, my life will never be the same...

Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world

Aha-ahaaa

All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world

Money, money, money
Must be funny
In the rich man's world
Money, money, money
Always sunny
In the rich man's world

Aha-ahaaa

All the things I could do
If I had a little money
It's a rich man's world
It's a rich man's world


Dieter.............

[dummy_plug]

Insert "hookers" for "ladyboys" in every part of this thread and the forum responses are probably going to be 95% the same...

[kahuna]

It's only a lie if they think it is...

[stogie bear]

(jimslim @ Jan. 23 2008,01:06) Lying is just part of the game to...

Fantastic post, Jimslim...

Infact I ask questions that I know will be answered with a lie...

Ha ha... so do I. I don't know why - maybe because I'm bored with the whole shitpit game. Many is the time I've answered a question in my head then asked the ladyboy in front me the question!

It breaks the monotony of having to sit with a prostitute who looks the same as her friend and all her other friends and say the same things as they would.

It's only a lie if they think it is...

That's a good point... and it's probably important to factor in the profit motive!

[SwoonTV]

no i don't lie, i'm a woman.

[thaibound]

(kahuna @ Jan. 26 2008,19:09) It's only a lie if they think it is...

it's only a lie if the truth really matters.

[Guest]

Thanks for you inputs. Still not sure why though, but convinced they lie more than others.
I think it´s the drugs/hormones/sexual identity that fucks them up and lieing is just normal to them.
Oh, also being thai.

[jet712]

You should check out Eros Match (Adult Friend Finder) to see how confused or insecure some ladyboys are about their identity or appearance.

I signed up recently for a few months just to check out what's out there at home and in Asia...you might be able to tell it's winter and I'm bored (read frustrated).

Anyway I was doing a search on ladyboys in PI and came across some profiles you might be interested in:

First up goes by the handle hotwet_ELAINE69.
 
This is clearly Lulu from Cascades.