How out are you?

[Mai-Kee]

So how do you handle your friends and family inquiries about going to LOS all the time? "Does he has yellow fever?" "Is it somebody particular over there?" "Where the hell is Thailand?"
Back home, do you show them fake pics of nice girls - or even of our "girls" here? What do you do with your insisting buddies whom you know since high-school? Do you tell them? Did you ever take them with you and showed them YOUR Thailand?
Gimme some statements guys, not only poll!

MK

[Guest]

After trip #2, I stopped telling at work. why should I get a rep as a whoremonger?

I show friends pics of one very special ladyboy and they don't have a clue!

[mirimark]

I have never been to Thailand so my answer is alittle off the beat'in path, But my G.G. girlfriend shares my Chicks with Dicks Fantasies. We have several Asian Shemale movies on DVD. But none of my friends Know.

[Guest]

I stay there for 6 months a year and when my family saw me leaving a high-paying corporate gig with full benefits to travel in asia for half the year and I couldn't tell them exactly what I was doing, they just gave up asking; I am an adult and can make my own decisions.

for friends.....they are just jealous! kinda like , 'man I wish I could do that'.....they don't ask what I do for a living and I don't tell. kinda like the clinton years.

as far as i'm concerned, it's my business only

[fancylighters]

I'm one of those double worlds guys. I have my "regular" friends, and I have my TG chaser buddies. As Gorge said to Jerry, bad things happen when worlds collide, so I keep them strictly separate.

In fact, it's a lot of fun to have a secret like this. With my "regular" friends, we do normal things, sports, drinking, goofing on people, etc. And with my other buddies, we hang out at the TG bars, drink, chase the sissies, and share all sorts of crude stories of our experiences

The only time my worlds have come close to colliding was in downtown Los Angeles. While going to lunch with my regular buddies, I bumped into a PI TG that I knew from the clubs. We hugged, said hi and I said I'd call her. Fortunately, she was totally convincing, and so I actually scored some points with the guys. But it could have gone differently. That's the risk I guess.

[Mai-Kee]

I'm actually out to close friends and family, but I can remember a funny experience I had when I was at Samui in 2000. Staying at the very nice Muay Kulay Pan hotel at Chaweng and enjoying the girls from Christies. I think it was in the early afternoon - I just had breakfast together with this stunning, but very "kathoey"-looking chick, when I heard a voice behind me: "I can't believe it? What are you doing here?" I felt like somebody stabbed me in my back, turned around and saw one of this "social" friends, who is connected with people you know, people who knows your family, business-wise as well, etc. Together with his fat wife and 2 kids! Hahahaha.... I just didn't really know what to say, but then I gave them a quick hello, decided not to introduce my lb-gf, as her voice was maybe darker then mine and told them what a pity, but I'm gonna leave this evening anyway. This was the only chance, as they just arrived and wanted to hijack me for some fucking watersports activities. I moved out the same day and over to Lamai beach.
I have no idea if they got it or not (I'm sure he didn't, as he has no clue anyway, but the shark eyes of his wife were like an x-ray and I bet she started gossiping on the phone back home the actual day) - but from this day on I found myself not invited anymore at some cocktails, parties, dinners of mutual friends. Which's perfect as they bored me to hell anyway for a long time already....

MK

[Tomcat]

I have business interests in Hong Kong, Taiwan and Shanghai
so i tell just tell people im off to the Far East and this normally covers it. They always jibe on about " your only going for the girlies" etc etc, so i just accept it and steer the conversation elsewhere .

A few friends try to tag on for these trips but i just dont allow it anymore. Its to complicated trying to duck and dive.
Friends are to be avoided like the plague when on these type of Holidays.They dont understand so fuck them.

Also
One incident happened a week ago when i left my PC switched on in the office after i left work. The problem was that my PC was still connected on to the ATS website  with a photo of Annies Dick hanging out.......

.......suddenly my office  manager Ernie phoned me to say that id left my PC on and that he had turned it off. Two things may now happen, either he will ask for a big pay rise or ATS.com will get another member.

Shit

[mirimark]

Mai-Kee.  Great Topic/Poll..  This is good reading, Hope all the members Chime in ?

[stogie bear]

I agree, a great thread idea!
Simply put... all of my friends and none of my family!

[Bit Beefy]

The only people that know are the people of met thru websites such as these. A few people know back here in england but only cos ive met them at parties or clubs where Tgirl admirers go. I couldnt and wouldnt let any of my close friends or family know. So i am Mr double even tripple life himself . It was quite ammusing on my last visit as half the time i was in pattaya i was with friends. Eyeing up LB's secretly given them the nod then dropping my hotel card with my room number or mobile number on it or meeting them in the toilet. I remember one nite i gave an LB the nod pointed up 2 the top of the road, then pointed at a Motor Cycle taxi. They understand perfectly well when they want to...lol..its cool when u meet sum1 that understands. But when i with my mates i pant and break into cold sweats about GG's aswell so id say they avent got a clue and for now im happy with it being that way.. I cum back and tel everyone all the storys i just dilute them, i take out stuff like she bent me over, or she came in my mouth, that sort of stuff....lol.. But as i dont just see LBs when i go ive got lots of pics of GG's sightseeing bikes etc so people just generally think im a normal perv

[Guest]

Hey Beefy, like you I lead a triple life! I try to keep the whole Thailand thing low key, talk about temples etc. With some friends though all I can talk about is Thailand but leave out just one little detail.

[Bit Beefy]

And the little detail is, she had a knob . Now isnt that cool....But sometimes do u look at ure friends or even ure family and say to ureself "If only they knew?" or even i wish i could tell u what ive been up 2 or what i like or even what im into. Not cos u want them to accept that u do it, just so u can openly talk about. Ill be honest last time i was in LOS i met up with Jon, Snick, Chuckwow, stogie & Mr Lonely. Do u know how refreshing it is even just for a few hours to just sit and be completly open about what ud been doing and what u were thinking?? Strange as it may sound the whole is anyone looking at me with this 6'2 bird with size 12 feet and thinking u dirty fuka...lol . As weve discussed on here b4 alot of u couldnt give a hoot nanny what other people though, i am yet to reach that level of enlightenment but im working on it

[Guest]

Mirimak,, a word of advice, take your lady to Thailand, thats how my lady first got interested in Lb's,,we had several asian ladyboy movies that we used to watch,,might be in the both of your interest to take a trip,,,changed my life....

There was a rumour sometime back that my lady was bisexual and thats why we were allways off to Asia,,to fuck and have 3somes with GG's,,,wish that was also true...

Going to Thailand with work buddys has come to an end,,just dont have the space you need.

Bali is another matter,they dont have ladyboy bars and gaybars,,its more of a mix,,and have been tapped on the shoulder many times by Lb's, to which I tell my friends that they are all dancers from my good friends drag show,,

As far as I'm concerned they can think what they like, I really dont give 2 fucks...

Bali_Ken

[Guest]

I go there for scuba diving--- just not out about my night diving

[Guest]

No one knows about it! Friends and family never suspected anything when I tell them that I'm vacationing in Thailand or Brazil. It's my world, my business and no one else, And I really enjoy the secrecy part of it!