Some help please chaps

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Firstly a big hello to all you fellow LB appreciators and I don;t know about you guys but I am really looking fwd to seeing the pics and hopefully movies from the PI brood. Great idea Jon .

My regular three month venture into foriegn climbs looms in about 2 wks and I am totally undecided about where to go and would appreciate some comments from you guys to sway me in one direction or another.
The norm is a one or two nighter in Sing to get warmed up maybe a GG from OT and ocassionaly a stunning LB from CrazyHorse or out front of the 7 /11 on Orchard rd, Then on to BKK where I stay at the Sheraton Grand on Suk' and have never had any bother or been asked to register /pay guest fee etc . From here I cruise Suk'rd and allways end up in Obs/Cas or Cascades and pull out what I want.So you get the picture.
Last two trips have been somewhat of a disappointment for all the reasons we have heard about on this forum , high prices, crowding by the girls in empty bars ,attitude etc etc. So having read the reports on Cebu and also the post in the clubhouse ref C &D's in Phuket I am in a quandry as to whether to try something new and move away from what I know ie BKK where I am very comfortable in knowing where when what and how etc .
If someone could recommend a smart place to stay in either locations I would be very gratefull also any info on experiences in Phuket specifically C &D that would be great . Guess I just need a shove to do something different I allways travel alone so guess this has some bearing on the matter.

Look fwd to hearing from you

CHEERS HARRY

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Hi Harry

you never mention how much time you have? I will assume 2 weeks, and since you are stopping into Spore first I can't help you there, as I have never been.

I still say keep BKK on your itinerary, at least for 2 or 3 nights, even if you think it is played out for you. Yes, Cascades and Obs can get old sometime, but between there and Suk/Nana freelancers you are bound to find 2 or 3 keepers that will make you happy. Also, if you want to write me privately and tell me your type, I could probably just send 2 or 3 to your room and save you the trouble. But don't skip BKK just because you were dissapoited last time; it's the greatest city on earth and as you know every experience there is like a new adventure.

Phuket....definately.....head there and stay for a week or so. Great place....soi bangla has 20 freelancers every night, and soi Kathoey has at least 30 more working in the beer bars there. Cocktails and Dreams has another 30; you could literally spend the whole week just going there and easily find 5 or 6 that will keep you happy. The cool thing there is that there is no hassle or pressures and the girls are not the jeaolus type, I believe. if you go back there the next night after screwing someone, you will be free to choose another and another, and so on. it's a great place and the girls there are top-shelf and with no attitudes, for the most part. Check these 3 updates, which are all still very relevant; september, 2002, and March and september 2003. we give big write-ups on Phuket and it hasn't changed, except for the better! lots of post-ops around now, however; make sure you ask before you take someone home from Bangla or soi Kathoey. Cocktails won't employ post-ops so you have no worries there, mate!

Cebu.......yes, I could recommend there also but that would blow your Thai end of the trip, unless you have like a whole month to travel? Remember also that Cebu has no real 'scene' like Phuket and BKK, which is kind of a good thing. The girls are not jaded and bar-worn, and more down to earth, in my opinion. they also speak better english. But meeting them in one specific spot is not easy; If Salma would agree, I would say just to meet her on the first or 2nd day that you are there and let her introduce her around to her friends. She knows about 50 girls, 30 of whom are on the new PI page, and you could have a ball there just hanging out with her and her friends.

Phuket, Cebu.....both nice places with lots of ladyboys and nice weather and beaches; you realy can't go wrong in either place.

have fun! Jon

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Hey Jon,

Speaking of Phuket. . .this will be my first trip there (leave in 25 days, but who's counting?). What is the attitude towards changing girls every night? I am for sure going to Cocktail & Dreams, but if I don't click with the first girl, will there be problems if I come back and pick another? Should I just tell them right up that I am a butterfly? Any and all advice on Phuket is greatly appreciated. Can't wait to get there. Thanks.

MM

[stogie bear]

If you don't "Click" with your first choice then you are unlikely to get into too much trouble when you go back the next day! You should lay it on the line off the bat that you are a 'butterfly' if you can communicate with her, that is!

If she's given you the fuck of the century then she may well be hurt if you don't want to spend more time with her!

Also there is the matter of a 'loss of face'. There is fierce rivalry amongst the girls and if you don't go with her the next day then she may lose face with her friends. (Her problems, however, should NOT be yours!)

If you are not drunk and you make sound decisions on the first night there is no reason why you shouldn't find a girl that you would like to spend some time with. Be aware that they stick like glue and are hard to get rid off if they like the look and feel of your fat juicy bank statements...

Lie and say you are leaving tomorrow if you want the girl to go, too! If you go back you can always lie again and say she didn't understand you when you said you were leaving!

Two rules for Phuket...


1 - Everything that belongs to you: NAIL DOWN!
2 - Everything you see moving: NAIL!

Have a great trip...

Stogie!

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yes to all your questions. as I said to Harry, the girls at C&D are business girls, plain and simple, and they know the way that we are; they probably are smart enough to figure out that they will not find true love with someone who is only on their rock for 7 days, so they expect us to butterfly and they are used to it. no one is saying that they LIKE it, but they are used to it and I don't belive they will give you shit for it. I met and slept with a VERY cute ladyboy named Gai-Gai the first night I was there with blue ballz in January; she is the blonde cutie in the C/D layout who looks like Mariah Carey. I was there for 10 more nights and never took her home again, but she never said a bad word to me or acted like my 'girlfriend' or any of that nonsense. She knew it was a business deal, she got 1500baht for it, and both sides of the transaction were happy with that.

this attitude won't work on Soi Kathoey. the girls down there are fucking hardened sharks and will bite your balls off if you try and stiff them, or screw one of their pals the next night. A good part of my pissed-off attitude when I came back from Phuket in January and I was talking about the mercenary lifestyle of ladyboys was from my experiences here. Lots of ladyboys, but be careful because if you sleep with one girl and go back there the next night she may try and latch on to you again. that never happens at C/D.

please read the 3 write-ups that I mentioned above. sept, 2002, and march and sept of 2003; those "AsianTS Impressions" pages are still VERY relevant and will tell you all about the great scene on Phuket.

I am going there myself for a few days in April...maybe we will cross paths?

Jon

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Thanks for the advice guys. I have had some problems with going back to the same bar the next night while in Bangkok or Pattaya. With regular girls as well as ladyboys. Just didn't want to go to a place that looks as awesome as C&D and screw it the first night and not be able to go back. You never know what happens. That first night, you see one whose looks knock you out, but is a cold fish in bed, don't want that to happen.
I'll be getting down to Phuket on 29 April, if anyone is around give a holla.

MM