Gay or Not

[Guest]

only messing fella....

[Monkey]

(CHRIME @ May 06 2008,21:13) I am not gay.
In my real life I have a girlfriend many years. On holiday in Thailand I have many fun with girls and ladyboys. With gays I have  little bit problems. I don't like gays.

In your real life?

[CHRIME]

(orgasmaddict @ May 07 2008,09:53) ...you don't like like gays?

[strocube]

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(kahuna @ May 07 2008,08:45)

I am not gay. On holiday in Thailand I have many fun with girls and ladyboys. With gays I have  little bit problems. I don't like gays.

Of course, I like getting ass-fucked and sucking dick, but I'm not gay either.    
I also hate fags.    

Dude, what a douche!

[mirimark]

Like a Dog chasing his Tail.
This is a hopless conversation.

[azza33]

(mirimark @ May 09 2008,05:33) Like a Dog chasing his Tail.
This is a hopless conversation.

Kinda like saying im not gay but the guy i'm fucking is!

Bottom line.. if the person you are having sex with has the same gender as you, you are both gay (homosexual relationship) - there is really no argument to that.

For me, i am not attracted to men in any visual sense. I am only attracted to the feminine form! Once the panties are down however, i don't care from that point onwards.

BTW i only scored 30% on that gay test... makes me 70% straight on the continuum. - oh i feel reassured now

[azza33]

I think the real point in the argument is how society paints a word.

When we think gay, a certain image forms in our minds, one that society has thrust upon us, with images on the mardi gras and village people and extreme gay environments etc

As such when we are classed as "gay" this triggers a repulsive notion in most of us and we all defensively claim this is not us its not possible - no way.

The truth is gay is an infinite variety of situations and environments where male to male physical relationships take place.

Face facts, all LB lovers are in this spectrum - but not at the extreme end of masculinity, but actually at the other end where the males are nearly 100% feminine - but this doesn't alter the fact that the sexual act performed is homosexual in nature.

We are all or Bi ... take your pick...

[haze69uk]

In my youth I agonised over the 'am i gay question??', over time it built up so much so i went to a psychiatrist for a few sessions to get things straight in my head (no pun intended).
After a few sessions of chatting it through, and explaining that i have never felt attracted to gay or straight men, i still loved to look at good looking well put together women, and at the time was occasionaly still having sex with women, but my preference was for ladyboys/transsexual girls and had been since my early twenties, the Dr suggested the term 'Trans Bisexual'.
I asked her if this was an official term, she said she didn't think so as it had just popped into her head and was more accurate than Gay or bisexual.
At the end of the day it's just another label, but one i felt more comfortable with.
Since then i've told all my family i'm in a relationship with a TS, and none of them batted an eyelid. My dad even called me a prat for not telling him 10 years ago.
None of them think of me as gay and when they look at my gf see nothing but a good looking girl.
The world is changing, and even in the UK people are beginning to slowly come to terms with the idea that in terms of gender and sexuality, things aren't so black & white anymore, and consequently the old labels just don't work anymore.

I don't particularly like labelling things but if i had categorise myself, i would call myself a happy Transbisexual and proud of it.

all the best

Haze

[Monkey]

'Trans Bisexual'

wtf?

don't start throwing a new label around, it'll just mess up some of these guy's heads even more...

Straight? Gay? Bi? Trans-Bi?



You am what you is...

Just get over it guys

[stogie bear]

(CHRIME @ May 07 2008,05:13) I am not gay...

If I had a dollar...

[seamus]

I would rather have a pound or a euro

[bigmick22]

I've never worried about a label or felt I had to justify anything to myself or anyone else. Just doesn't occur or matter to me.

I just am and that's that

Life's too short and all that jazz etc

Now - where's the cock and ass pics?

[alan1chef]

The world is definitely changing. I remember when all gays felt they had to act feminine and look feminine; slim bodies, limp wrists and high voices, etc. Those people are still around however the gay community by and large today looks and acts no different from the straight community, except when it comes to sex. So, throw your limp wristed icons out the window because it's not that way anymore.

[Tomcat]

(alan1chef @ May 10 2008,08:59) however the gay community by and large today looks and acts no different from the straight community throw your limp wristed icons out the window

I doubt is the Gay world is changing is this respect

You obviously havent been to Old Brompton St , Londons cafe society area. It dont take five seconds to realise that this is living teapot country...The Gays i see certainly have mannerisms that gives them away immediately.

Limp wrists a plenty..take my word for it....London is full of them

[Monkey]

(alan1chef @ May 09 2008,23:59) So, throw your limp wristed icons out the window because it's not that way anymore.

What she said..