Are we gay?

[machodik]

I have spend a lot of time in reading all nice post here and to be honest with you, my most daring encounter with a ladyboy (gay) is to the extend she give me BJ and I CUM to her mouth. I never have had any experience nor guts to fuck her ass or sucked her cock nor let her drill my ass. I wish to ask our nice fellow here in this forum whom have sucked LB cocks and have their ass fucked by an LB but still consider themself a straight guy and have never change thier sex preferences with a real girls.

Your enlightenment and advises is most valuable to me. I like reading your report in this forum and hope someday I can meet some of you guys in LOS., but I keep telling myself it is much on the curiosity rather than being a gay of getting my interest in reading stuff about the LB's.

More power to you guys.

[nigel69]

sorry to say but this topic is all over the various parts of the forum, at the moment. To put it bluntly if you have cum in a guys mouth, then clearly you had no problem with this at the time. It's not what we other members of the forum consider ourselves to be, it's what you now consider yourself to be.I have been unimpressed with many of the other "gay tag" topics to date, as clearly many people have a problem with owning up to their own sexuality. I for one know that I am a bi-sexual and indulge in my lb fantasies ,when I get the opportunity.If you are logging onto this website, then as far as I am concerned you have joined the club and have shown a "desire" to look at pictures of "women with cocks" or if you prefer "men with tits".We are therefore lovers of the 3rd sex.

[mirimark]

(machodik @ May 28 2007,09:08) but I keep telling myself it is much on the curiosity rather than being a gay

Be careful. Once you try it, you will like it .

It all starts with Pretty passable Ladyboys, then the addiction leads to Pretty Flat chested Femboys and the next thing you know, You wake up one morning and Look in the Mirror and you see your another year older and GAY as GAY can be.


P.S.
Stay away from my Femboys Gallery Thread.
It has turned many of Hetro Men Gay as a Leaping FLame.
But if you want to know why Asian Femboys are better than G.G.s then take a gander. The proof is in the cotton panties.

[Guest]

One preface- I know a lot of people here seem opposed to topics springing up fresh every now and then. I am not. It is a natural life cycle that people will come and go. Also, it gives people a chance to revisit ideas on which they may have changed their minds. Of course, there is nothing wrong with posting a link to a previous post- if the reader wants, they can follow it and read up on the past discussion.

All that having been said, here's my point of view on the current topic:
I really do not understand the obsession with whether or not someone is gay. This is like "living in the Matrix", you are accepting definitions and consequences that someone else, or some system has imposed on you.

Why live your life according to someone elses definition. I'm always fascinated when someone posts the question "Am I gay?". I just imagine them sitting at their keyboard, biting their fingernails and anxiously awaiting an answer to their question. Like waiting for lab results from your doctor. What are you going to do if the answer comes back positive? Kill yourself?

I used to think eating raw fish or fried squid was gross, then I tried it, and I got over it. Who cares what the common perception is. I have had 90% of my sex with women, a couple of events with men, and a couple of events with what I would called "shemales" (fitting the American mold, somewhat different than Thai ladyboys).

What does that make me? Horny. Happy. Beyond that I don't care.
I certainly don't need to sit around waiting for someone else to tell me what I am, and why would I care what anyone else thinks anyway.

Now is an opportunity to own your sexuallity, and for that matter own your own life. Be your own man and define your life in your own terms. Stop worrying about these labels and whether or not you are gay. Who could answer that for you anyway? And what if you are? Who cares? Enjoy fucking whoever you want.

(I have known a gay art dealer who was queer as they day is long, and he said "Sure I've fucked women, but that doesn't make me straight")

[moe666]

Agree totally it'sall about labels and weather you except them or not.
This gal I've known for years once got the hots for a good looking guy she worked with( she didn't have a clue he was gay) one night he gave her a ride home and Terry jumped this guy. Terry started kissing him and grabbing his cock. He is busy pushing her away and he says Terry I am gay. Terry ask him how come you have a hard-on then.

[kahuna]

Sorry fella, we're all Fucking Faggots...

Don't get too close to us, it's contagious...

[stogie bear]

Now is an opportunity to own your sexuallity, and for that matter own your own life. Be your own man and define your life in your own terms. Stop worrying about these labels and whether or not you are gay. Who could answer that for you anyway? And what if you are? Who cares? Enjoy fucking whoever you want.

Wise words... although for many people it's easier said than done.

[Guest]

Possibly so. I've been so self-defined all my life, it seems the most natural thing to me. I have to go out of my way to think in terms of following others.

The downside is I never made head cheerleader, and I never understand whatever the big fad is at the moment. I don't get "Desperate Howsewives" (our version of Footballers Wives I guess) and I don't understand why everyone is into Paris Hilton, or why most people believe in an invisible friend who lives in the sky.

[Torurot]

Your Gay , we're Gay. Gay = Happy. Look at any pre 80's dictionary, OED is the last word on words! You happy now. Read around the forum for more on this vexing topic. There is no straight answer.

[69billy]

(grunyen @ May 28 2007,04:00) One preface- I know a lot of people here seem opposed to topics springing up fresh every now and then. I am not. It is a natural life cycle that people will come and go. Also, it gives people a chance to revisit ideas on which they may have changed their minds. Of course, there is nothing wrong with posting a link to a previous post- if the reader wants, they can follow it and read up on the past discussion.

All that having been said, here's my point of view on the current topic:
I really do not understand the obsession with whether or not someone is gay. This is like "living in the Matrix", you are accepting definitions and consequences that someone else, or some system has imposed on you.

Why live your life according to someone elses definition. I'm always fascinated when someone posts the question "Am I gay?". I just imagine them sitting at their keyboard, biting their fingernails and anxiously awaiting an answer to their question. Like waiting for lab results from your doctor. What are you going to do if the answer comes back positive? Kill yourself?

I used to think eating raw fish or fried squid was gross, then I tried it, and I got over it. Who cares what the common perception is. I have had 90% of my sex with women, a couple of events with men, and a couple of events with what I would called "shemales" (fitting the American mold, somewhat different than Thai ladyboys).

What does that make me? Horny. Happy. Beyond that I don't care.
I certainly don't need to sit around waiting for someone else to tell me what I am, and why would I care what anyone else thinks anyway.

Now is an opportunity to own your sexuallity, and for that matter own your own life. Be your own man and define your life in your own terms. Stop worrying about these labels and whether or not you are gay. Who could answer that for you anyway? And what if you are? Who cares? Enjoy fucking whoever you want.

(I have known a gay art dealer who was queer as they day is long, and he said "Sure I've fucked women, but that doesn't make me straight")

We are not gay ,we love the 3'ed sex...And thas official....
But I don't know about the stogie bear ....He shaves them first.....

[moe666]

Maybe that shaving stuff is the 4th sex and old mister Bear is the ring leader.

[Guest]

My first encounters with LB's were while I was stationed in Panama. I got a few BJ's from LB's there. Some were rather attractive. I fucked a couple in the ass. At the time I was getting more than my fair share of GG pussy and ass as well. FRI-SUN was my "regular" girlfiend (off the the province and beach areas) - a definite fuck bunny that I almost got divorced over. MON & WED were whoring around evenings (mainly GG but occasionally a LB). TUE & THU I was doing my maid and towards the end of my tour both my maid and her cousin. At this point in my life I did not consider myself to be anything but straight (an asshole is an asshole is an asshole and boy they were tight -- didn't matter if it were GG or LB).

Now fast forward 15 years later. I am nearing 50. I am a diabetic with ED problems. Viagara helps somewhat. This problem is further compounded by LOS (in my case Lack of Sex) due to my wife's medical problems.

Up until now I have only received anal sex via strap-on. Some was good -- some not so good. However, I constantly think about Talisha, Fern, and a multitude of the ATS lovelies doing me anally and at this point can only dream I will get to make a trip to the real LOS before I get too far along physically.

Am I gay, naw I don't think so (an asshole is an asshole is an asshole and boy are they tight -- doesn't matter if it is GG, LB or 50ish old fellow who is head down ass up getting drilled by an Asian lovely).

But what do I know, 20+ years of jumping out of planes can seriously ruin anybody's judgement.

[daveduke007]

Fuck it I maybe   , Am I " snogging" a bloke here or not Your opinon would be be appreciated

[moe666]

The only gay fucks here are the clowns who have to keep asking are we gay. it seems to me that most people on this forum really don't care one way are the other and have a very good attitude and exceptance of what gets them off.

[Road Runner]

  Not quite how I would put it  -  but pretty much what I was thinking  

RR.